Deal Breakers and Deal Makers in Dating

Have you ever wondered about deal breakers and deal makers in dating? Have you ever been left wondering why that promising first date didn't lead to a second date? What did you do to break the deal? What do you need to do to seal the deal and make a guy commit? The following examples will show you the difference between deal breakers and deal makers in dating - read them carefully!

First Date Jitters

The first date is often the hardest one, especially if you're really attracted to the guy. You spend so much time changing your hair and clothes that you leave him waiting for you for ages. Finally, you make your appearance, all flustered and out of breath. If that sounds like you - beware! You haven't blown it yet, but you're close.

First Date Confidence

Let's look at the deal maker's approach to that first date. She already knows what she's going to wear and how she's going to fix her hair. When the guy arrives, she greets him at the door with a confident smile. She's ready to go out and have a good time. Before they even step out of the door, she's already nearly sealed a second date deal.

It's All About Me

You're out on a date and the guy is a little bit quiet and reserved. This makes you nervous, so you start talking. You tell him about your friends. You complain about your ex-boyfriend. You talk about work. Before you've even arrived at your destination, he's summed you up as a self-centered bore and the deal is broken.

It's All About Us

Draw the guy out by asking him questions about his life and his interests. Find the button that gets him to open up and talk. Show him that you're interested. When you find something to talk about that turns you both on, then the sparks will fly and you've just made a deal.

The Difference

Do you see the difference between deal breakers and deal makers in dating? Which girl are you? Are you the poised and confident girl who takes control and makes a guy fall in love? Are you the nervous girl who never gets a second phone call?

Now that you know about the first date deal breakers, it's time to move on to the heavy stuff. Do your love life a favor and find out how to attract men into your life and wrap them around your little finger. It's easier than you think if you know what to do!

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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.