2012年8月31日 星期五

Questions to Ask a Date: What to Ask and What Not to Ask During a Date


Are you feeling excited over your upcoming first date with your guy? Have you been thinking of what questions to ask a date and how to ask them the right way? Do you think that your list of questions to ask a date is already sensible enough to merit an answer from your date?

First date dilemma can include not only the dress to wear and the overall outward appearance; it can also include the right words to say and the right questions to ask a date. If you are not sure about the right questions to ask a date, then read the following types of questions to know what can and cannot be included in your list:

1. Personal Questions: Questions that can be considered as personal are a big no-no especially for first dates. In your list, refrain from including personal questions to ask a date because it can appear as though you are prying on his personal life. Personal questions make guys uneasy and they don't like that kind of feeling especially on a date. They will likely refuse answering such questions so there is no point in bringing them up. It will only embarrass your date.

2. Questions Regarding Family: Depending on the guy, this type of questions can or cannot be included in your questions to ask a date. Some guys take pride in talking about their families and relatives while others are mum and quiet when it comes to family topics. If he is fine with the topic then you can start asking but if he says he does not feel like answering questions concerning his family, then you have to stop asking one.

3. Relationship Questions: Avoid asking questions regarding his past relationships. Some guys prefer not to hear any questions related to previous relationships, more so if one of those past relationships had been painful. A few guys however will try to answer such questions but these are the guys that do not have issues with their past lovers. So before you include relationship issues in your list of questions to ask a date, observe your date first if he is the type that does not mind answering such questions or one that does mind.

4. Questions Related to Accomplishments: Your set of questions to ask a date can include things related to his accomplishments. Most guys love talking about the things they have accomplished, which could either be career-related or just about the normal everyday stuffs they do. Do not be surprise if you hear an answer such as winning the annual fishing contest next to his Banker of the Year award. A guy can take pride in both. There are guys however who are not too fond of their careers or jobs and would politely turn down any questions related to it. If you are dating this type then you have to respect his refusal to answer such questions.

5. Questions about Hobbies or Interests: Guys are proud when it comes to talking about their hobbies or interests. They can even talk for hours regarding this topic. Asking your date about his hobbies or interests is one way of getting to know his personality.




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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.




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