Is it about time you got that special guy to fall in love with you? Have you tried to act more like your girlfriends in order to be as successful at love as they are? Are you clueless as to why it never seems to work for you? It certainly isn't easy understanding all the ins and outs of love, but there are a few key facts you should be aware of.
What's the rush?
If you go out on a date with the firm determination of landing you a man who will quickly put a ring on your finger, you're setting yourself up for a great disappointment. The pressure you put on yourself to come home with a catch will most likely lead you to make a rash decision about the man you meet; you're so eager not to be alone that you settle for a man who isn't quite up to snuff.
And the pressure you might inadvertently put on him... it can be staggering.
So, breathe in, look at what you have going on in your life and be proud of who you are. Then go out with the intent of having a fun and exciting date with a man; no expectation, no pressure, and no looking to the future. You'll be amazed how different your dates will be if you just enjoy the date itself without putting the added weight of 'we gotta get serious and build a relationship... now!'
Dating is the time to feel him out, see what he's made of and determine whether or not he's the kind of man you really want to spend the rest of your life with. Does he make you laugh, make you feel at ease and leave you eager to see him again.
And what do you do to him? While men's needs do differ from women, they do want to feel those same things about you. Every date should open up a different side of you and show him how you can fulfill his needs. After a hectic day at work, be the one who can sooth and calm him. Or when the need for a thrill comes up, invite him along to one of your favorite fun activities.
You'll find that through this process you'll develop a strong bond and a deep friendship. Sharing experiences, understanding emotions and braining joy and happiness to each other's life is the cornerstone of any long lasting relationship.
You want to make him fall in love? Keep the pressure off and the fun on.
To learn more, click Fall in Love and learn Love Mistakes that 99% of women make without knowing.
This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.
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