So, you have finally got that first date you had been waiting for. Do you have any plans? Are you clueless about what you are going to talk about? Are you scared that your guy won't be impressed by you? Don't worry. We all feel first date jitters. In order to make your date a success it is important that you communicate properly and have an enjoyable conversation with your partner. If you bore your date, then there's obviously no chance of a 2nd date. First date conversation is a big factor in deciding your future.
Just imagine, if you would not even find talking to a person interesting, would you ever want to be with him? Of course not. First date conversation is the key to knowing about each other and to decide whether to carry on from that point or not. You should plan carefully about your conversations as it is important to put your best foot forward. So, do you want to impress that super cute 'Brad Pitt'esque guy whom you have finally managed to ask out?
Here are a few tips on first date conversation that can save the day and can boost your love life:
• Be inquisitive: You should ask a lot of questions to your date. This will make him feel that you are seriously interested in knowing him. Ask questions about any topic that he talks about; it can be his favorite football team, or the movie he saw last week. Also, listen to everything he says and shoot your queries so that your guy gets really interested in your first date conversation.
• Eyes on him only: Be focused on your date. Don't get distracted by anything or anyone. Be a good listener and try to know more about him. Your date should have your full attention and should feel that he is very important to you. Also, by focusing on him you'll really get to know him and will be able to decide whether you really like him or not.
• Don't let the date drag: As the two of you will be interacting properly for the first time, there is a big chance that there will be a certain level of awkwardness between you two. Thus, you should not let the date be really long. If you and the guy really hit it off, you are sure to go out again. Thus, you should keep your first ate short so that there is absolutely no chance of boredom. Also, you should never spring up controversial topics like religious beliefs, politics, etc.
• Make boredom fun: If you find that both you and your date are not being very eloquent, you should just make fun of the awkwardness between you two. This is sure to spark a fun chemistry and you will definitely have fun.
• Talk about your day: Talk about how you spend your day and know about his day too. This will give you more insight into his life.
• Observe and comment: Notice different things about him, like accessories, cologne, etc. and tell him that you like it. Talk about that accessory and what it means to him.
First date conversation is all about knowing each other, but, you also have to make it fun.
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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.
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