2012年9月1日 星期六

How to Date a Guy - Dating Basics


Are you so conscious when you are with a guy you like? How do you respond to a guy if he asks you out for a date? But, are you all nervous when a guy you like come up to you and asks you to date him? Going out on a date with the guy we like is almost a prayer answered by the One up there in heaven. We do everything to look good. We sometimes take extra care of our actions and words so as not to mess up the night.

We prepare so much for that special occasion that sometimes we over do things. From hair, make up and the dress we wear, we forget showing who we truly are and what we are really made of. Here are a few reminders on how to date a guy:

Be yourself. Act naturally but with grace and elegance. Do not be someone else for that night. Show him the real you. Give him an impression that you are not trying to show him good things just to please him. And, show him what you are really made of. No pretentions, just the real you.

Comfort and confidence. I know you want to be beautiful for the occasion. But, you must also be comfortable in what you are wearing. He will appreciate it more if he sees you comfortable when you are with him. Wear something that looks nice but appropriate to where you guys are going. You must also relax and be confident with yourself.

Having fun. Learning on how to date a guy will also mean learning what he likes. Of course, you should also be vocal on what you want to do. Your date will be most memorable if you were able to have fun when you were together. Ask him what he has in mind and tell him what you might want to do during your date.

Determine the intentions. Dating a guy can be very fun and memorable. But, remember that you must find out what his real intentions are. Does he like you or he just wants to spend a night with you? In getting techniques on how to date a guy, we must know our limitations and up to where we can spend the night with him.

Do not rush. The basics in knowing how to date guy is time. You can't just go on a date with a guy because all your friends are into dating. Do not rush it. If you rush a mango to ripen, then it will not be as sweet as it can taste. So as with dating, take it easy. Make one step at a time. You can't just go out with a guy tonight then tomorrow you'll be officially together as a couple. Try to know each other well and try to enjoy each other's company first.

How to date a guy? Can one really teach you how? There would be a lot of other advices that can be given. But, it will all matter on your principles and values. You know what is right from wrong. You know how to determine liking someone from loving someone. With dating, you would know when to enjoy and when to stop. It can't be fun all the way, you have to know also when to say no to your guy.

It will also be your choice on how memorable your date will be, whether you make it the most enjoyable moment or not. There's no how to date a guy book because you learn along the process. So, enjoy every second of it and just be who you are.




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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.




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