What Different Kind of Dating Would Make Relationships Work?

Women are from Venus and men are from Mars. This is true, but unfortunately few people care to realize and believe it. If you want your relationship to work, you have to understand that your guy would occasionally desire a different kind of dating than what you consider ideal or normal.

Sport Games - A Different Kind of Dating

Do you want your guy to make an effort to show more interest in your hobbies? Let's say you love watching ballet shows and Broadway musicals but you can never get your guy to accompany you. If you want him to do that, why not make the first move and show interest in what he likes? Rather than going out with your girl friends, why not stay at home and watch a ball game with your guy? Who knows? If you take the time to understand how football or baseball works, you could enjoy watching it, too.

Bungee Jumping - A Different Kind of Dating

It could be that you feel your guy has a different kind of dating in mind simply because you don't think you have the ability to share his interests. It's different with sport games, which you simply don't like. What if your guy's interested in extreme sports? You find it fascinating, but you don't think you have the guts to try it.

That's an extreme example, of course, but the key thing to remember here is that it never hurts to try. If bungee jumping is beyond your league, how about trying something less frightening but almost as exciting like a zip line or rappelling? What matters is that you tried, and your guy's sure to appreciate you more because of your effort.

Poetry Reading - A Different Kind of Dating

What if your guy's on a different intellectual plane? What if you like to read horror novels and he's into poetry reading? Does that mean there's no future for both of you?

Of course not! All it means is that you just have to try harder to understand each other's interests better. It doesn't mean you'll like poetry readings as much as your date or boyfriend does, but by attending them you may at least gradually develop an appreciation for it.

Backpacking - A Different Kind of Dating

What if the different kind of dating that your boyfriend has in mind would demand physical sacrifice on your part? What if it means backpacking and roughing it out completely in the middle of the jungle?

In such cases, it's ideal to meet halfway and begin with a compromise. Backpacking isn't something you can be instantly good at or readily appreciate. If you're new to camping and you're dating a guy who loves backpacking, he should appreciate the fact that you're at least willing to try camping for starters.

Once you get used to camping in a modern campsite, you can then move on to something a bit arduous such as RV camping in the woods. Again, what matters is that you tried. If you're willing to try his kind of dating, your boyfriend's sure to try enjoying the things you like as well.

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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.