What Makes Men Fall in Love? The Right and the Wrong of Love

Are you out on a date with a new man every week, but they never stick around long enough to fall in love with you? Do you think you've got it all happening and why men don't call you for a second date is a complete mystery to you? Are you hot, confident, ambitious and just all out fabulous and you blame the men in your life for not truly appreciating all that you have to offer? Before you start playing the blame game, maybe you need to take a good, hard look at yourself to see what message you're really sending out when you go on a date.

If you're going out thinking you're the best thing out there, you might be intimidating men a bit. Confidence is great, but cockiness isn't. Tone down your self-aggrandizement and be a bit more real. If your dates are filled with flattering yourself and trying to convince the guy that you're great, you're shooting yourself in the foot. Be great and let him see for himself just how wonderful you are.

The next date you go on, think only of showing him a good time. What do you do when you're out with your girlfriends? You laugh, kid each other, sing, dance, have fun and just enjoy each other's company. So do this with him. Don't try to prove yourself, just be yourself. He won't feel the pressure to have to like you or to have to turn the date into a relationship. But the emotions will come in a more natural and true way.

Subsequent dates should follow the same pattern of carefree fun without any doom and gloom of your expectations. If you start to push him to love you, to be with you and to pay attention to you, he may retaliate by doing the exact opposite. Just have fun and let him see how great it is being with you. The better he feels every time he's with you, the more he'll want to spend his time with you and this will eventually translate into a great and long lasting relationship.

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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.