Finding True Love

Do you believe in true love? Do you think it exists in the modern world? Where can we find true love? How do we know if we've found it? Read on to learn about how to find true love in our modern world ... with so many confusing choices ...

Match.com, date.com, singles' clubs, speed dating, the bar scene, commercial matchmakers ... It seems the choices are endless. But too many choices are not always the best thing because they cause confusion and complications. It's like a girl shopping for her perfect prom dress in a store with thousands of beautiful dresses. Anyone would get confused.

If you have happened to live in the era of Scarlett O'Hara, everything would have been so easy. You don't even have to do much. Your lovely mother would tell you exactly what to do, what balls to attend, what to wear, and which gentleman would make a good match for you.

In the modern world, however, things are more complicated. We are given so much freedom for choosing our mates that it suddenly becomes a daunting, confusing task. How do we select? What are the criteria? How can we be sure if he's the right one?

Here are three tips on finding true love in the modern world:

Tip #1: Being True to Yourself

Before you go out to find your perfect man, it's best that you know what you truly want. It's not what your parents want, or what will make your friends jealous. It's what you want and what makes you happy.

Tip #2: Having High Standards

Having high standards doesn't mean high maintenance or asking too much. High standards mean that you're specific about what you are looking for in a man. For example, you know that a man who smokes will never do to you because you're very health conscious. Don't feel bad about rejecting a smoker. After all, love is not a charity. You have to do what makes you happy.

Tip #3: Never Give Up Your Search

From my coaching experiences, I've encountered many great women who gave up too early and too soon. A few past bad experiences with men have left them pessimistic. They feel that they will never find their soul mates and it's just all a waste of time. I strongly disagree with this! True love does exist; your perfect love life is there waiting for you. You just have to know where to find your true prince and when you find him, how to attract and keep him, because believe me, a high quality man who want to settle down is a rare thing in today's world. So, never give up on your dreams; never give up finding that perfect man and that perfect relationship. They are all out there and you owe yourself to live your perfect, love life ...

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This article is contributed by Alexandra Fox, a popular dating coach with a huge following. She has written many online books. Her newest book is: 77 Secrets to Make Every Man Want You, Chase You, Love You, and Commit to You. She also wrote 13 + 1 Characteristics that Naturally Attract Men, 82 Body Clues to Read Your Man, The Sensual Woman, How to Become a Man Magnet, and the popular Unforgettable Woman 8 Week E-Course. You can find more about her by visiting her website.