2012年11月21日 星期三

Let Him Know You Truly Love Him - It's Too Easy


Have you been dating a guy and you're considering telling him how much you love him? Are you just gushing with warm, loving emotions and you just can't wait to share your love with him? Do you worry that once you declare your great love for him his response might disappoint you? Many women make the mistake of making grand declarations far too early in a relationship. Know when it's right and avoid what can be an embarrassing situation.

While many men might not admit it, they enjoy the cat and mouse game a lot more than they let on; perhaps even more than they realize. They enjoy the chase, the challenge and the risk of not succeeding. So if you just jump into his arms after the third date and tell him how much you love him and how much you've missed him, you're cutting the whole notion of challenge and risk out of the equation.

In addition, women who are too quick to state their love to their man tend to have an aura of desperation that clings to them. If your man isn't turned off by the notion that he no longer has to work to win you, just knowing that you could be this desperate will most likely send him running.

For a variety of reasons, women are often in a rush to go from the dating stage of a relationship to the full on, hardcore steady and committed relationship. In their haste to reach for that commitment, many of them forget that the guy may not be thinking along those same lines. While he's still at the stage of having fun and getting to know you, you're already far ahead picking out wedding dresses and looking for a new condo to share with him.

Slow down and revel in this exciting, if not nerve racking time. Not only do you not want to scare him off, but you should be taking this time to learn as much as you can about him. If you've only been on a few dates, what do you really know? And what are you simply assuming? Many women see a warm and sweet face and assume the guy is going to be warm and sweet as well. That's not always the case.

Let him know you truly love him by showing your affection, by letting him know you admire him and by respecting his pace.




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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.




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