Make a Guy Fall in Love - Charm His Heart

Is it impossible to make a guy fall in love with you? Have you been on disastrous dates that left you weeping and feeling you'll never find the right guy for you? Do you sometimes want to give up on love? While you should never really give up on the possibility of finding your true love and conquering him, there might be some value to letting a portion of that dream fall by the wayside.

Sound counter productive?

Surely you've heard it before. "I wasn't even looking... and there he was."

Sometimes when we want him so badly, when getting into a relationship is so important and when time seems to be running out we can get a little desperate. As hard as you may try to hide that desperation, it almost always comes through and is almost always repelled by a guy.

When you go out with a nice guy you think has potential, don't have your mental agenda out in the open. As a matter of fact, simply throw that mental agenda away and don't even think about it. If you can have a good time with this guy, get into an interesting conversation and just learn a bit about him without the gears in your head working to figure out how to make him your boyfriend or husband, you'll be more relaxed and you'll enjoy yourself more.

Right there you've already won a point because you're having more fun. But you're also allowing him to relax and have fun. He's just a guy you're getting to know and you're just a girl he's having a good time with. Next date? Continue being fun, vibrant and free. Also be yourself. Don't fake your way through this stage, it'll just turn out to be a waste of time in the end and you'll regret it.

Also, without that agenda in your head you might be more apt to continue with the activities and social life you've always had. Most women forget the importance of this part and devote all their free time to him. Don't. These activities will bring a vitality to your life which you'll in turn bring along on the next date, which will make you a more interesting person and will intrigue him all the more.

And, most importantly, it will cause you to be less available to him. Your gut might tell you that this is a bad thing. Well it can be if you take it too far and truly never, ever see the guy. But if you're only free to see him once during the week, you're creating a huge need for him to see you.

Fun dates, the challenge to pursue you and the knowledge that you're a vibrant and independent woman will all charge him up and have him falling in love with you before you've even had to chance to wish him to.

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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.