2012年11月30日 星期五

Make Him Feel Loved - Show Him How You Feel


Do you want to show your man how you really feel about him? Are there so many emotions bubbling up inside of you that you just have to let them out? Is it hard knowing just how much you should tell him and how much you should hold back? It can be a delicate task; show him too much love and he'll bolt, hold too much back and he'll think you simply don't care. Read on to find out how to measure out the proper dose.

Look at how long you've been together. While there is no perfect number for the amount of dates you should have before you feel strongly for him, the lower that number is, the more awkward it can be for you to state your love for him. Love takes time to grow and if you're declaring your undying devotion to him too soon, he'll know that something is wrong... and it can be freaky.

If after three dates you find you really enjoy being with him, simply state what a great time you had with him. If on the fourth date you find yourself wanting to know so much more about him, be interested in what he has to say and show him that he's important to you. If on the fifth date he confides a certain problem to you, show your compassion and how much you care about what he's going through.

Do you see a pattern here? Slow. Your emotions should be in keeping with the relationship. Keep a close eye on the signs he's giving out. If he's too cool and laid back and has a 'take it or leave it' attitude towards you, don't ignore it and don't try to make up for it by spilling your guts about your love for him.

But if you see that he is increasingly warm, that he welcomes those few times when you touch his hand or is receptive to your little flirts, you can show him a bit more of what you're feeling.

Avoid coming straight out and telling him you love him. There's a good chance that your emotions are a tad premature and that he hasn't caught up with you yet. You don't want to have those words handing in the air, unrequited.




To learn more, click Fall in Love and learn Love Mistakes that 99% of women make without knowing.

This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.




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