2012年11月24日 星期六

Make Him Feel You Truly Love Him - Without Driving Him Away


Are you currently dating a guy that you really love? Do you want to show him how you feel, but are afraid to? Do you know how to make him feel you truly love him without driving him away? You might not; lots of women make the mistake of going overboard when they are trying to show their guy that they truly love him. There is a right way and a wrong way to show your guy that you truly love him.

The Wrong Way to Show a Guy You Love Him

You see it all the time; a man and woman are dating for a while, he might tell her he loves her and all the sudden she turns into a stalker. She says she is just trying to show him how she feels, he feels like she is smothering him. She is showing her affection in the very wrong way.

When you're showing your guy that you truly love him, you don't want to:

• Plan your wedding when he hasn't even mentioned getting married
• Call him a hundred times a day when he calls you only once daily
• Complain about imaginary "issues" in your relationship
• Cling to him, especially around his guy friends
• Decorate his place when you have your own home to keep up

These are things that can really drive a guy away when you're dating him. It's hard, yes, but so important to make him feel you truly love him the right way, so you can get the commitment you're looking for.

The Right Way to Make Him Feel You Truly Love Him

The right way to make him feel you truly love him is a lot less hands on. In fact, you may sometimes feel like you're not hands on enough, but there is a reason for this. If you are less clingy and you know he's into you, then he will feel like he needs to spend more time with you.

Give him the space he needs, when he needs it. By now, you probably know your guy pretty well, so it's likely that you can see when he wants to go out with the guys without you. Don't worry; it's just going out with the guys. Take this time to spend time with your friends and have a good time. He will call you tomorrow.

Also, don't feel like you need to plan your wedding if he hasn't mentioned getting married. Just take it easy and let things happen at their pace. He probably knows that you would like to get married, so let it stay there. When your guy is into you, he will probably already be thinking about getting married, anyway.

You can make him feel you truly love him by following his lead. Sometimes, this takes time, but if you're attentive when the two of you are together, but not pushy about commitment, he will feel that you respect him and his time frame. Let him set the pace with how often he calls you. Allow your guy to ask you to do things for a while. When you're seeing each other nearly every day, you can safely ask him what's on the agenda for the evening, but not until then.

By following these simple rules, you can successfully make him feel you truly love him, without worrying that you will drive him away.




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This article is contributed by Tina Jones. Tina is part of the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women who want to understand male psychology, how to attract men, and find true love. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.




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