Be Smart in Love - Boost Your Dating IQ

Would you rather wait for your luck to change, or learn to take charge and be smart in love? What is the best way to show a man what makes you special? Do you know how to keep your guy intrigued? Learn to be smart in love, and you can have romance in your life.

Dating IQ tip #1 - Don't spend all of your time with him.

It's never a good idea to make yourself too available. For your sake and his, spend plenty of time apart. If playing hard to get seems like cruel game-playing, consider the things that make it good common sense.

A man doesn't have to work to earn something if it's handed to him on a plate. If you're always around, why should he try to seek you? Also, you worked hard to build a life of your own. You shouldn't give anything up to be in a relationship.

Dating IQ tip #2 - Consider a whirlwind romance.

This old phrase usually meant a quick courtship, followed by early marriage. But, consider thinking of it in terms of excitement. You don't want to spend too much time with him, but being smart in love means making the time that you do spend together really count.

Think of exciting, new, or active things to do together. If you let him see you in many new contexts, having fun, then you will represent excitement to him. Many guys are fearful of being tied down; show him that being with you means just the opposite.

Dating IQ tip #3 - Let him share his interests with you.

You don't have to take the lead in everything. Women are usually natural planners and organizers. But, try out activities that he enjoys, too.

It's only fair to take an interest in him if you want him to take an interest in you. So, whether he has a passion for sports or rock-climbing, let him teach you about his hobbies. This will make you a part of his life in a way that feels natural to him.

Be smart in love, and you won't have to be lucky.

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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.