Make Him Fall in Love and Keep His Love Forever

Have you had fun while out on the single scene, but now you're ready to give the married life a try? Do you want to settle down and find a good man who will love you and cherish you forever? Are you finding the transition from fun dating to serious relationship building difficult? The rules certainly do change when you're no longer looking for just a night of fun. Read on to find out where you need to make some changes.

Friend with Benefits?

No doubt your past dates either revolved around your sexual relationship with the guy or his constant attempts to get sexually closer to you. But once you decide to get serious in your search for a good man, you should simply concentrate on the friend part of the relationship and not let allow sex to come in and confuse the situation. This will give you a good chance to see what kind of guy he really is, and he'll get to see that you're a great woman without the sex blurring his vision.

Critical Cathy?

Many women find it irresistible to criticize a man. Must be something in our DNA. If you know that this desire is strongly imbedded in your personality, watch out. Guys aren't too fond of being constantly told that they're are wrong, or mistaken or simply idiots. Be sure that what you want to criticize him about is justified and then make sure your criticism is balanced out with a fair dose of praise and admiration.

Get His Emotions Going

Men are drawn to women they are physically drawn to, emotional intrigued by and intellectually curious about. Ensure that your dates are always filled with conversations that have you both divulging a bit more about yourselves. This constant flow of information blended in with dates that are fun and exciting brings about a strong sense of emotional attachment to the other person. Before you know it, he's looking forward to seeing you again, to talk to you about his troubles and just spending a great evening with you.

Love blossoms out of that sense of emotional attachment and if you can be patient and give him the time that he needs to understand and accept everything that he's feeling, you'll soon have him falling in love with you. Keep the fun on, remember to appreciate the man that he is and keep the pressure off and you can have him loving you for life.

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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.

Make a Man Fall in Love With You and Keep His Love Forever

Are you one of the many women who have reached that stage in their life when they begin to wonder if they'll ever find that true love? If you were to meet that man today, would you know how to make him fall in love with you? Have you made several attempts in the past, but you've been unsuccessful? Love isn't always easy, but there are a few tricks you can try to better your chances at a loving relationship that will last.

Begin by being honest with yourself. Many women embark on a new relationship lying to themselves and thereby lying to the man they meet. This always leads to failure. Know who you really are and then show the men you meet the real woman.

And what about the man you're meeting? Are you simply falling for a pretty face, then taking charge and trying to change everything else about him that you don't like. Look at the whole man when you date and don't trust that his looks alone will carry your love.

Once you have that honest assessment of who you are and what you need in a man, take the time to truly build an emotional connection with him. This doesn't happen with the snap of your fingers so don't get frustrated if he's not declaring his undying love to you after the third date.

Just as you should take your time in getting to know him, you should allow him to take his time as you slowly divulge a little more of the woman you are. Try to keep your dates on a fun and friendly tone instead of weighing down each encounter with your need to turn it into something heavy and romantic.

Without the pressure to turn this budding relationship into a full blown romance, the guy can relax and get to know you in a more natural way. He sees all the fun things he enjoys in you and that connection slowly grows.

During this process, you should keep sex out of the equation. Not only do you want to build up the great anticipation of that day, but you want the emotions to be there. If not there's a chance that you'll read too much into the sexual encounter, say too much about how you feel about him, and inadvertently lay the pressure on him to feel the same.

Take it easy and have fun as you get him to fall in love with you.

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Jessica Carey is a professional writer who has written many articles and books on the topic of dating and relationship. She has dedicated all her free time to help other women understand how to attract the man of her dreams. Please visit her website to learn more.