2012年9月22日 星期六

Make Him Fall in Love - Loving Essentials You Need


Do you believe you know the way to make a guy fall in love with you, but you don't understand why your tactics haven't worked out so far? Are you the kind of date who does everything right and guys still don't call you back after two or three dates? Are you vaguely aware that you're doing something wrong, but you don't know what it is? Thousands of women go on dates that appear to be great, but underlying problems usually leave the guy reluctant to call her back and she has no clue why.

Women usually go into a date looking for something (a nice guy who is cute and will treat her right) and she'll come home after a date happy that the guy was to her liking. However, she'll rarely stop to think what he might have taken from the date.

If your weapon of choice as you set out on a date is sex, you might come back thinking you hit a homerun. You were sexy, hot and wild and you really showed him what you had. But can he possibly be going home thinking that you have little more to offer than your sexuality. Take a bit of time to show him that there is far more to you than just fun in bed.

Another notion women leave a date with is how great a conversation they had with the guy. They talked and talked and talked and it was all so much fun. What she may not realize is that she's the one who did all the talking and the guy could barely get a word in. And what she found witty and amusing was actually boring him to tears. Make frequent eye contact with him as you talk. Is he attentive? Really interested in what you're saying? Or are his eyes dull and lifeless as you ramble on and on?

If you have any intention of getting to know this guy, you have to let him talk. Be interested in what he has to say and encourage him to open up to you. He'll walk away from the date feeling validated and wanting to see you again.

And lastly, from a woman's point of view, if she feels he's husband material, she can start to rush the relationship along and try to make him fall in love with her fast. In her eagerness to really set this relationship in cement, she usually ends up sending him running the other way. Going too fast too soon is not good for either of you, so hold in your desire to rush things. His love will come on its own time.




But there's good news about this whole thing -- even when you have to step back sometimes, there are many techniques to use "stepping back" to your advantage. Join my mailing list to receive techniques, advice, and information that will drastically improve your luck with the men you meet

This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.




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