Make Him Fall in Love - Your First Date

So, you have changed your image strategy and you have successfully exercised your first moves. You are now facing your first face-to-face encounter over a drink or dinner (or walk, or anything you two have organized) with great anticipation.

This article will help you before, during and after that special romantic meeting so that it won't be your last!

Before: don't fuss over what to wear too much. Remember that he likes you enough to ask you out, so he must like you the way you presented yourself to him before. Don't revolutionise your look now, just with what image you had when you met him, the one closest to the real you. Be on time, don't be a 'prima donna' and be spontaneous. Bring some money with you just in case he's a loser and expects you to pay (or if you want to split the bill, which is fine).

During: always remember that he likes you enough to have asked you out. So, don't be nervous or apprehensive. Be yourself. If he talks about himself, let him talk because this is how you are going to find out if you two are actually compatible and if you actually like the guy! If he does not talk much, ask him questions. Do not bother with insignificant questions like favourite movie unless you ask why (you need to find out who this guy really is, remember?). If you can, ask questions about his family, his life dreams and goals; his favourite holiday destination (and why), etc. Ask probing questions. If he asks you questions, be friendly, answer them of course openly and honestly but do not reveal too much about your past life, this is not the time to do this. Be a little mysterious but answer his questions to a point. Then, reverse back to asking him questions. When you hit a subject he seems to enjoy talking about, let him talk. Remember, a date is not a way to have fun only, it's a way for you to find out who this guy really is and if it's worth seeing twice!

Afterward: when the date is finishing, tell him what a great time you have had (if you did!) and thank him (if he asked you to pay for the whole thing, say good-bye no matter what ridiculous excuse he gives you; you don't want to date a loser nor a user). That's it. Don't call him, don't text him, don't do anything. Wait for him to invite you out again. If he does, he likes you and wants to know more about you. Great, you are onto a next date!

When you are about to date him again, make sure you know how to make him fall in love with you by practicing a great tool called EMOTIONAL TRANSFERENCE with you. Also, as you date, check his body language all the time to find out if the SIGNS OF ATTRACTION are there.

Jules Monty, author 'My Searching For Love' website