Did you know that there are some things that are definite deal breakers in any relationship? Do you know what they are? Have you broken any of the deal making rules in dating and wondered what went wrong? Every man you date will be different, but there are some definite deal breakers that apply to all men.
The first one you need to know about is that sometimes things just don't work out and you can't do anything about it. Take that guy who finally asks you out months after you first met him. The date doesn't go like you had hoped it would at all. The two of you just didn't seem to click. Your pride wants him to ask you out again, but he doesn't. You can't make a deal if there's no real connection to begin with, so don't worry about it.
Then there's the guy you feel a connection with and you know he had a good time, too, but he doesn't call you again. What went wrong? This is a case where you should think about the deal breakers you may have accidentally been guilty of.
Did you talk a lot about your ex-boyfriend? Mentioning the guy is okay, but if you poured your heart out about what a creep he turned out to be, you may have gotten mixed signals from your date. You felt an emotional connection with him because he seemed to listen sympathetically to your tragic tale. It was a one-way connection, though, because he was just being polite. No guy wants to hear stories about a girl's ex - ever.
Are you nervous on first dates? That's alright - everybody usually is. The problem comes with the way you deal with your nervousness. Guys tend to clam up and act cool when they're nervous around a girl. Women are just the opposite. They tend to talk - a lot. This can work, but only if you draw him into a conversation by asking him things about himself. If you just talk about yourself, he'll think that's all you're interested in. Remember, you're not the only one who is feeling some first date awkwardness. Consider his feeling, too.
When you're dating a guy for the first time, don't let him know how excited you are to be with him. Be bright, lively, courteous and interesting, but don't let on that the twinkle in your eye and the glow on your skin are because of him. If you want to hear from him again and make him fall in love with you, make him feel like he has to win you. That will make you more desirable in his eyes.
In a nutshell, these are the three biggest mistakes to avoid on a date: talking about your ex-boyfriend, talking about yourself and making him feel like you've already fallen for him. Avoid these three deal breakers if you want to hear from him again.
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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.
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