Can My Love Become a Life Partner?

This is the question, which seems very easy and very typical both. If you question any young couple, definitely you will find a positive reply. But, if you contact the parents, you will have to come back with a reply "NO". Both are right at their places. Both have their different and quite important reasons behind their perceptions.

Most of the couples say that it is their life, and they are capable enough to choose the perfect companion for them. The commonest reason, they give, is that they can adjust more easily with one, whom they are in love with, than with a stranger. They say they have trust and good understanding between them, which never let them have any confusion or suspicion.

Parents have their own ideas. They say they are experienced enough about the life; they know what's good or bad for their children. In most of the parents' views, there is nothing like love; it's just only attraction, which decays after a certain period of time. They present very strong perception that they can think nothing bad of their children; after all they are parents.

While these both are fine, both are unable to get the solution of married life failure. Why? Simple, sometimes couples are wrong, and at others, parents. Actually, it is out of both. It doesn't matter how aware and responsible the parents are or how deeper you are in love, there are some other factors, which matter. For avoiding the cursed married life here some great assistance is given:

First, I want to come to the parents, who say they never want to hurt their children; whatever they do, just for their betterment. I don't say you are wrong; but you are also not supposed to ignore their choice directly. If you don't want to hurt your child why are you ruining your image in his/her heart? If you are really careful and want to show your experience and intelligence, you should use it to inspect whether or not that person is right for your child. It is not only for those, who are much strict, but also for those, who are careless about their children. I don't say you just leave them, saying 'it's their life'. Parents must keep watching into the children's life; but not as possession, but as duty.

Now, I am before the couples, who are seeking their life partner in their loves. First dears, you must realize the difference between love and marriage; lover and life partner, and dreams and reality. You would have understood what I want to say. I'm not saying you should never think that your love may be proved as the best one for you, in the entire life.

You may find all the qualities of a perfect lover inside whom you love, but it is not necessary that this perfection will remain, when that one will be your spouse. Even sometimes, your perfect love may not want to marry in entire life. When you are in love, you both don't have so much responsibility as after marriage, so having same expectations after marriage will not be fair.

Overall, I meant to say that if you are not in dreams, your love is attached to real world and then if you both are true to your expectations, undoubtedly, your love will be alive for your whole life.

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