How to Tell If He Really Loves Me - Signs of True Love

Does the fantasy side of your brain allow you to believe he could really be in love with you, but the logical side isn't sure? Have you been watching his every move in order to find a hint of what he's feeling? Do you need to know now or you'll go nuts? Look out for the signs. What signs? Read on.

Where do you fit in?

For the guy who is still talking in terms of, I'm going to do this, they've invited me to go there and I got myself a ticket to go see that, you gotta know that he's not thinking of you very much. He's not making any room for you. The man who is beginning to feel something for you is going to automatically include you in the majority of the plans he makes.

Does he feel for you?

While you're mentioning a problem to him, does he get a distance, faraway look indicating that he really doesn't care what you're going through? He may just be in it for the fun. But mention the same problem to a real man who cares, and you'll see that he'll jump at the chance to give you a hand. He'll want to offer a solution and will probably even step in to take care of the situation for you.

Don't take advantage of this generous nature, however. If you're constantly plagued with problems, he may come to think you're too much trouble. Keep a balance and don't overdo it.

Has he stopped playing around?

Those first few dates, it's natural to assume that he is dating other women, perhaps even as you are dating other men. But as the number of dates increase and a certain serious nature starts to instill itself in the relationship, it's natural to assume that he will stop dating other women. If you find that he refuses to do so, don't fall for whatever silly line he's going to give you to justify his actions. He's stringing you along.

Most men will be more than happy to give up the dating scene once they've found the woman they're truly happy with. He'll probably even offer it up and ask you to do the same.

So, is he in or is he out? Now you can tell.

But it doesn't stop there, mind you. Seeing the signs is one thing - knowing what to do at each sign is another. If you want free dating tips on how to improve your relationships with the men in your life, then sign up for my free newsletter here. You'll get great dating advice delivered straight to your e-mail several times a week!

This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.