2012年12月7日 星期五

Lead Him Into Love By Guiding Him by the Hand


Have you ever wondered about the man in your life and about how you are supposed to lead him into love? Have you worked on relationship after relationship, but found yourself still with no lasting results to mention? Is because of your lack of time or your lack of hard work that this is not working? Do you feel like just giving up? More than likely you are on your way to being able to lead him into love, but you just do not realize it, which is why you should follow these simple rules to guide him.

Rules From The Past:

o Things were easier for men

o Relationships were set up for men

o Relationship rules were clear and simple

o Men had much fewer things they had to worry with

o They knew how to deal with a relationship

o Women never asked men out on dates

o Men chased after the women

o Women never had to seek out men

o Men were not pressured into relationships

o Relationships moved at the pace men set

Rules From Today:

o Women have been given the power

o Men do not feel they control the relationship

o Women move way too fast for men

o Men like moving a much slower pace

o Women are left to chase the men

Guide To Leading Him By The Hand To Love:

Now that you have the rules from the past as well as the rules from today in mind, then you are fully aware of where both sexes stand in the relationship game. In the past, the relationship rules truly worked for men, but now that women have taken more control it is up to them to lead him into love.

Number # 1: Always look your best.

No matter what you do it is vital that you always looking the best you possibly can if you are wanting to catch his eye.

Number # 2: Always let the man ask you out.

When it comes down to dating, then it is important to let him take this first step. Men like to be the one that asks out a lady. On this date you want to not only look attractive for him, but you want to be able to keep his attention. Let him make all the decisions on your date as well, because this will give him the feeling of being in charge.

Number # 3: Keep the mood light.

Be sure to set the mood of the evening light, which will make him as well as you much more comfortable during your evening. You do not want him to feel that you are coming on too strongly and want the evening to flow

Number # 4: Allow him to guide the pace of your relationship.

Oftentimes, a man will move much slower than a woman will. For this reason only, it is vital that you allow him to control the pace in which your relationship moves if you want him to feel as comfortable as he possibly can with you.

Number # 5: Create an atmosphere for him so that he does not feel pressured.

It is not unusual for a man to feel pressured or insecure when involved in a relationship. When he does feel this then he will often begin to worry. You will want your man to feel secure in your relationship by not pressuring him into anything he is not ready for.

Number # 6: Have patience with him.

If he is truly a terrific man, then he will be more than worth you waiting for. Show him that you have the patience that is needed by not having any unnecessary expectations from him about increasing the pace your relationship is moving. Allow him the time he needs without undo pressure so that he can figure out exactly how he feels about you and your relationship.

If you are a strong woman, then these six steps will help you in your relationship and with the needs of your relationship. Following these will help to lead him into love by guiding him by the hand without him ever knowing what hit him.




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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.




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