Are you trying to get him to fall in love with you and it's not working? Have you been out on the dating scene for too long and you fear you might not be able to actually get a guy to love you instead of just lusting after you? Is this guy important to you and you really want to win him over? Almost everyone has problems with relationships at some point in their lives, but there are a few things you should know as you set out to win his love.
Before you do anything, realize that men aren't in a rush to fall in love the way we are. You could almost say that when they do fall in love, it's accidental. On the other hand, most women are in such a rush to meet that perfect man that they often set out with their desperation clearly spelled out with their every gesture and statement.
When this reluctance towards romance meets the urgency, things don't usually work out too well. Try to control your intense desire to make this relationship work at all costs. Have fun when you see him and let the romance come on its own time instead of forcing it to come.
In doing this you'll be taking a lot of pressure off him and he'll be able to relax. This will allow him to open up more easily and he'll soon see how pleasant it is being with you. Make each date with him count by doing a variety of things with him. Don't be afraid to try new things and let him see that you're willing to do what he enjoys.
Sure it's fun when he's willing to enjoy your activities, but don't forget that these dates aren't all about you. He wants to have a good time too and you should be generous enough to allow him that fun with you.
As you get to know him, try to keep sex out of the picture for a good long while. For the most part, women tend to get confused once sex is brought into the relationship because they are quicker to interpret just about every move he makes into one of love and deep affection. Unfortunately, men's affections don't always follow their passions.
This can lead you to reading more into the relationship than there actually is. And this is usually followed by increased pressure for him to catch up to you. Let his love grow at his pace. Falling in love doesn't happen in a heartbeat. It takes time, patience and a willingness to embrace his love as it comes.
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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.
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