Be Who He Wants While Being Yourself - A Definite Path to Love

Are you ready for a long-term relationship? Do you have someone in mind who you would love to be in love with? Are you prepared for the work of a partnership with someone? If you are ready for a loving, stable relationship but aren't quite sure how to make it happen, read on!

After you play the dating game for a while, you realize that it's mostly smoke and mirrors. There's not much depth to dating. It's all very surface oriented, yet sometimes you long for more. Sometimes you want a relationship that is stable, loving and comfortable.

In order to be comfortable, you are going to have to learn to be yourself around men. It's a hard thing to do because if you've been dating many guys, you probably have felt the need to be someone that you really aren't. Women get caught up in the game of dating and forget that in order for a relationship to be stable and supporting, you really must be yourself.

Being your true self is really the only way to create a sustainable relationship with someone else. When you find the person that you want to be with, then choose not to play the game. Take down those game walls, and let your true self shine through. He will notice the difference and discover that while you may not be what he's used to, you've got something that he just has to have.

It's hard to break out of the role that you've created for yourself, so try to give yourself some time to figure it all out. Let him know that you are ready for something new and different, but don't overwhelm him with your desire for long-term permanency. He will get worried if you are too overzealous.

Explore yourself and your personality in order to really get to know who you are and what you have to give. Once the guy sees the amount of work you are willing to put into the relationship with yourself, he will automatically realize that you are worth investing time and energy into.

It's a hard path, but one that can result in goodness and a terrific relationship. Get to know who you are before you try to get a man to fall in love with you. If he sees that you are honest, authentic and sincere then he will be sure to want to be with you.

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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.