Art of Dating - How Love Works

Do you know how to make the best of the art of dating? Are you a little clumsy when it comes to being with a man and you'd like to improve on the art of dating? Do all your friends have an amazing handle on the art of dating and you're the only one who's struggling through this?

A sense of helplessness can quickly take over some women as they face one failure after another, often coming to doubt themselves so heavily that they give up dating altogether. Don't lose hope just yet. The art of dating is at your fingertips. Just continue reading.

Taking it Lightly

Part of what brings about many failures on the dating front is the overwhelming desire to turn every date into the ultimate experience. The pressure you put on yourself to prove to him just how fabulous you are can actually turn around and bite you.

Relax and take it easy. As difficult as this may sound, especially if the guy is really cute, it's important to create a sense of wellbeing for him. If he senses you're overly nervous, uptight or even too eager to please, he'll feel ill at ease.

Avoid the Commitment Talk

Some women want to get the question out of the way as quickly as possible; is this relationship going to go anywhere? While men tend to take dating on a one day at a time basis, women want a definitive direction to the romance. Before they invest in this relationship, they want to ensure something will come of it.

At the beginning stages of any relationship, it is impossible to know if anything will come of it. Even if he does come out and tell you that he is looking for a solid commitment, that doesn't mean you'll work out well together, so don't even bother with the question for now.

While you're having fun with him and getting to know more and more about him, listen carefully to what he says and try to pick up on the little clues he drops. Does he talk of traveling the world solo? Not much chance for a commitment there. Does he lean more towards wanting a stable home life and the eventuality of kids? Maybe you have something to work with.

Is He Commitment Phobic?

This said, some guys aren't ready for a commitment when they meet a woman... or they don't know they're ready. So coming straight out and posing the question could get you the wrong response. Why? He'll tell you he has no intention of getting hitched, but given the chance, he could very well fall in love with you and realize that his single days are numbered.

Sometimes a guy simply needs to meet the right girl in order to ditch his bachelorhood for good. But are you the girl he's looking for?

Faking Your Way Through

He tells you he loves the outdoors, so you go ahead and get yourself some camping equipment. He mentions how he loves football, so you read up, study and watch a few games in order to have something interesting to say to him. Or he says he's a vegetarian, so you empty your freezer of every steak you have and fill the fridge with vegetable goodies.

While it may be nice to bend to his will a bit, going all out and faking your way into a man's heart rarely works. If you do manage to temporarily fool him, in the end one or both of you will be very unhappy. He'll either come to realize you've duped him, something that will surely not sit well with him, or you'll realize how unhappy you are pretending to be happy doing what he enjoys.

Get a handle on the art of dating.

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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.