Are you looking for the love of your life?
Before you can love someone else you have to first love yourself...
How often have you heard that statement?
Yeah, I know, you're sick of hearing it. I hate to tell you this but it's true. Great, but how does loving yourself help you find that someone special today?
We'll it doesn't. It's just a starting point. You can love yourself all day long but you need to take action. I have three tips to help you take action and find your true love starting today!!
Tip One: I'm not going to say online dating. "Wow, what are you crazy? That works for everyone." Yes, and please feel free to try it. What I'm going to speak to you about is more related to advertising. My first tip is something not many people do but you'll be surprised at the results.
Tell all your close friends, family, co-workers that you are looking for that someone special. Set up a time with the people you trust when they won't be distracted and just ask for their help.
"Hey, can you do me a favor? Would you keep you eyes and ears open for me. I'm looking for someone special." Then tell them what you are looking for.
"If you know of someone please introduce us, or if you meet someone please give them my email or vice versa so we can contact each other."
You'll be amazed at how wonderful this works. It's so easy to have people advertising for you. So often we never ask the people in our lives to help. We ask for work references, help with repairs, recommendations, etc. but we never ask them to help when it comes to dating. Why? Because we feel silly or I feel like a loser because I should be able to do it on my own. None of that is true. So please, ASK! Watch what happens. I've been introduced to all my significant relationships. It works!
Tip two: Nope, I'm still not saying online dating. Instead be a giver.
What do I mean by that?
How many times have you gone to the mall, gym, convenience store, etc. and saw that person you were attracted to? We'll Act on it!
Yeah, I know I'm asking you to go way outside your comfort zone, but please re-frame your mind to think this way; what if you are giving this person the chance to meet their future wife/husband and fall in love.
Remember, you're not pleading with them to go out with you, instead you are giving them a chance to meet their future love. You are giving LOVE a chance to happen.
I'm not saying it will, but wouldn't you agree there is a chance? Yes, your darn right there is so be a giver.
Remember sales 101, it's a numbers game. If you ask a 100 people you will get a yes. How many? I can't answer that, but I will say it's only a matter of time until that yes becomes the one.
Tip three: Ok, OK I'll say it, online dating. Look at it as marketing. So, what do I mean by that? Give yourself a chance to meet people. Online dating gets you in front of potentially hundreds of thousands of people or more 24/7.
First off, get some good photos. They don't have to be professional and you should have
photos that represent who you are and what you look like. So please have someone take photos of you in various attire, settings, that show the best of you and are flattering!
So often I see these photos online and I'm amazed at the lack of caring and trying. People pick up on that.
Next use a good headline, and not a cheesy one. Something that will capture attention and may reflect your personality. Have fun...
I suggest you write down three of your favorite characteristics and then look at how you can take all three and blend into your profile title. For example, free spirited, laughter, strong willed. That might mean to you Lioness or Lion hearted. Now add that one name to your attention grabbing title: Lion Hearted: WARNING! or DANGER! or READ BELOW TO WIN! Be creative and have fun.
Mix your profile name with an attention grabbing word in CAPS. It does what it is suppose to do, grab someone's attention.
Next step is to address the title/attention word in your about me section. You can say something like, "Warning or danger if you continue to read this you may like me so stop right now."
"You're still reading, OK here goes..."
Than tell them about you. Don't write too much and keep it simple, fun, and mostly let you come out through your writing. Then Spell check, double check, and hit enter.
When writing to someone don't just say hi or you're hot. Read their profile and ask a question related to what they say about themselves. Keep it short and simple and if you feel like you can say something funny, go for it.
Check your inbox once or twice daily, but otherwise leave it alone. You will get responses...
I hope these 3 tips help you find your love. If you're looking for more advice on how to find that someone special please continue to check my EzineArticles page for upcoming great information. Feel free to ask a question or leave a comment if any of these tips have helped you.
Trust me, your love is just around the corner. Don't stop, don't give up because it will happen!
Cheers,
LBJ
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