First impression counts, and if you are serious about getting in a steady relationship with a woman that you admire greatly, then be sure to make your first date an impactful one. When I mean impactful, I am referring to how you can successfully make her attracted to you within the first few hours of your meet-up.
There are three main things that you, as a man, must avoid in order to create a positive first impression towards the woman across your table. They are bad habits that some men do during their first date, which ultimately leads to a failure afterward -no second date and no invitation into her house.
1) Never ever brag (SERIOUSLY!)
Women hate cocky guys. They view them as egoistic individuals who will potentially rule their relationship with her having no say in it. Not only that; you do have to realize that women generally love to socialize and go out with their bffs (best-friends-forever). Sometimes, they do introduce their boyfriend to their mates. A boyfriend who loves to brag a lot makes them uncomfortable and restless. Thus, women will usually reject cocky guys as they not only annoys them, but hurt their social standing among their peers too.
2) Don't be late!
Only the princess is allowed to be late, not the prince. Be a gentleman and practise punctuality when it comes to dating, more so for the very first date. When you arrive at the location of the date before her, it also shows that you are eager to meet her. This is a plus point as it helps create the impression that you are really enthusiastic to see her. You may also use the buffer time to prepare or touch up the gifts you have bought for her earlier. If you are late and decide to rush to the place, then you may also mess up your attire at the same time too. (It's not cool to meet her with sweat dripping all over your face.)
3) No touching please!
Unless of course, she touches you first...The primary reason why you should not touch her on the first date is because it may create an impression that all you want is her body. Yes, all we want is our women's gorgeous body but the problem is that not all women allow that to happen easily. Therefore, make sure you keep it romantic at the same time un-touchy. Focus the date on getting to know each other more rather than well...sex.
If you avoid these three things, you are on your way to getting the woman of your dreams!
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