He Hasn't Called - The Aftermath of the First Date

Why hasn't he called? How many times did you experience asking yourself that kind of question? Is he not interested? You have probably asked that question when you went out on a date with a major cute guy. You begin to wonder. Here's what you had, you went out with someone you don't relatively know and completely had a fabulous time. You had a good conversation with him wherein it flowed smoothly like the wine. Your evening date ended with a passionate tongue-kiss in your front porch. You could say that it was a good first date. You were so certain that he'd called back for a second date yet he hasn't called.

You are so excited to see him yet it's already been three days since the date. You probably have thought of some bizarre reasons like he's was involved in some tragic accident or something. But you never accepted the fact that probably he's not interested in you. He got your number so you could say he's interested with you. Basing on the experience of most guys, they ask for the numbers of their dates but some don't call back. Here are some reasons as to why he hasn't called you back. Some of which may surprise you and hurt you but don't worry, as what people say, there are a lot of fishes in the sea.

Reason # 1 He was trying to be nice.

You had a good date. The night went perfectly fine. This is your own perception. He was just trying to be nice and respectful by getting your number. He doesn't want to hurt you. He doesn't want to frankly tell you that he didn't enjoy that night. Perhaps he enjoyed your date but he's just not that into you.

Reason # 2 He is so busy with work and projects.

Admit it, you have probably called the guy and ask him how we were and wondered as to why he never called back. He may have called you back and say that he has been busy with work. He makes some excuses saying that there are a lot of projects that he got caught up with. That's too pathetic. He had time to go out with you once and it's impossible that he works 24 hours a day and won't go out with you even for just an hour.

Reason # 3 He's not ready to take a step forward.

The problem with men is that they ask you out on a date and leave you hanging. They are just there for the first date and nothing more than that. Some guys are just players and would rather play the game of dating. They don't want to jump into a serious relationship. They would just rather go out on dates, sleep with some women and do the same thing over and over again. Men are probably just wired to do that. Don't get your hope up if he hasn't called you back. It is a sure sign that he's not the right guy for a serious commitment.

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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.