Are you currently in a relationship with a really special guy and have found that you are falling for him? Are you frustrated with how long it seems to take men to fall in love? What can you do to speed things up and make him love you sooner? Guys tend to buckle under emotional pressure. This article will give you a secret technique that will help him to fall for you sooner without running him off.
Men really get a bad reputation when it comes to relationships. It is believed that men just simply aren't interested in commitment and love. Although men do tend to think with their sex organs, the above comment simply isn't true.
Yes, there are men that are only looking for sex. In fact, there are tons of them. However, there are just as many men who want the same thing in a relationship as women. They want someone that they can love and trust with their heart. In fact, when men fall in love, they do so just as completely and strongly as women do. However, it does tend to take them longer, or in some cases, it just takes them longer to realize that this is what they are feeling. This is rather frustrating to women, because women tend to fall in love faster.
Men really don't take their time intentionally. It is just the way they are. However, there is a way that you can speed up the process. This has to be done very subtly so that he doesn't catch on. You see, the idea is to make him think that the two of you have actually known each other longer.
In order to achieve this goal, you are going to have to give him a large range of experiences when you go out in a small amount of time. The basic rule of thumb is that you want to set a time limit of say 15 minutes to 30 minutes for your dates. A long date shouldn't be any more than an hour. Make these dates as varied as possible. One day you could go for coffee and then maybe meet up for a drink later that night. Then, you simply continue to do this several times. The more often you see him, the better.
The reason that this works is that instead of looking at the length of time you two have been together, he will think of the number of times the two of you have gone out. By making the experiences varied and numerous, it will seem to him that the two of you have been together longer.
This idea might seem a little deceptive to some women. However, there really isn't anything deceptive about it. You are simply taking your dates and condensing them in order to get him to speed up the bonding experience for him. If you want him to fall in love with you, this technique has been proven to work.
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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.
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