Make Him Love You - Things You Need to Know

Have you dreamed of making him love you? Do you want to know the way into his heart? Are you at a complete loss when it comes to capturing a man's heart? Men can at times appear to be very strange creatures indeed, but if you look closely, you'll find that men really want the same thing as we do. They just go about it a little differently.

Men function on a very visual level. They interested in a woman is based simply on physical appearance. So, while looking good will get your foot in the door, it will not be enough to gain you complete entry into his life and into his heart.

If a man is to get emotionally involved with a woman, there has to be something in it for him. So what are you proposing? Are you attentive? Do you appreciate him? Are you open to trying new things in order to have fun and active dates that will appeal to him? You don't have to get on your knees and treat him like a god, but if you constantly criticize, if you cut him off only to talk about your own interest and if you show disinterest and even disdain for the things he enjoys, there's not much to keep him coming back.

Though it may be tempting to make yourself available for each and every date he invites you on, try to maintain your own life and independence. Not only do you not want to put your life on hold for a man, but you want to show him that you do have your own interests, hobbies and a social life. You'd be surprised to learn the affect a 'no' can have on a man. If you decline a Saturday night date with him and explain you have a night out planned with your friends, he'll be all the more eager to see you when you are free.

Just be careful. You don't want to be snotty or arrogant. Refusing to see him while haughtily stating your
preference for another activity is a sure turn off and he's likely to never call you again. Be polite and cheerfully apologetic, perhaps even suggest another time when you'd be free to see him.

Once you've gotten over those initial hurdles and you're well on your way to a fulfilling relationship, don't push him to feel as you do. Just because your heart is turning flips every time you see him, doesn't mean he's ready to put his heart on the line just yet. Many women lose control of their own emotions at this moment in the relationship. Either the love in their heart swells so much they can't keep from showing it, or their eagerness to have that love in return drives them to attempt to forcibly draw that love from their partner.

Instead of forcing the issue, continue to offer fun dates, interesting and enlightening conversations and compassion when he is down. Be the woman he turns to when he wants to go out and have fun, and be the woman he can talk to when he's had a rough day. Amuse him with your funny stories and let him know how much you appreciate him when he allows you to vent your frustration over a hectic drive through traffic and soothes your frazzled nerves.

The love will come on its own. And when it comes on its own, it real be a true and genuine love that is not based on pressure or insistence, but on a real desire to spend as much time with you as possible.

Make him love you by showing him who you are and the life you have to offer him. If his future with you appears filled with fun times out, quiet nights before the fire and comfortable conversations that fulfill him, he won't be able to resist you.

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This article is contributed by Tina Jones. Tina is part of the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women who want to understand male psychology, how to attract men, and find true love. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.