In this world, everyone falls in love. Some of them become able to get their love soon, some others later, but there is wait, wait and only wait with a small hope for rest of them. Although, it looks a line of a fairy's tale, but this often happens in real love. Many people keep waiting for the moment, when their love will come to them effortlessly. These people do want to be closer to that special one always and not to miss even single look of him/her. But, they don't want to express their feelings. It doesn't matter you are a male or female; it occurs with both equally.
You may have found so many examples of how one chases his or her love. Generally, you find males in this situation; they can say to whole world, but not to whom, they should. For the females, although it is right a girl falls deeper in love than a boy, so they love beyond the proper limit, but they don't show it. In several or almost all the movies, definitely you will find a couple falling in live; what goes between them, what the ways they follow and all that. Also in several tales, dramas, and even in reality, daily you find many people saying they love next, but don't know about that one.
Have you seen ever to children, who are much interested in each other? It is sure, no where you can find the greater example of chasing than this. In the child age, can you expect any sexual tendency? If 'Yes', you don't have human feelings, and if 'No' then what is this? More probably, that's why love is called the game of hearts. These two never say anything like' I love you' directly to each other. Instead of this, they prefer being together every time, playing, laughing and enjoying sweetness of each moment. Although they both are interested in each other, but there is no straight expression; they disclose and understand it effortlessly.
When we think about the causes, it's really hard to decide any exact, even then, at deep look, we find there are many factors behind these. The main cause of this is inferiority complex. If one has any lackness, he or she would not like to step out. This lackness may be because of not having good look, sharp mind, enough height, color complexion or any other quality. This inferiority complex produces a fear inside them, and doesn't let their feelings come out.
After all, the question arises, what should they do to come out from their fear, and finish chasing? Of course, the solution is same where the problem is. You should stop what stops you. First of all keep in mind nothing is perfect or useless; everything has its own existence with a unique quality. Recognize and understand your existence; improve yourself, your hidden qualities and polish them. Whether you accept or not, these efforts not only will improve your image, but also will conceal any lackness, if you do have. After this no reason is there why he or she should give you a refusal.
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