Have you got a monumental crush on a great guy and you're intent to trying to make him fall in love with you? Does he show you an exciting amount of attention, but it just doesn't go past that? What are you missing that could turn his switch and open up his heart? Getting it right can sometimes seem impossible, but there is a way.
The best thing you can do, right from the start, is to put aside any preconceived notions, and expectations, and simply anticipate a date. Without too much riding on the date, you're going to feel more comfortable, will act more like yourself and, most importantly, you won't give him the impression that this date had to become something.
Without that expectation to become something, it's strange how relationships often do develop into something. Maybe it's because without these expectations you can concentrate on having a good time, getting to know him and on just letting him see the real you.
The bond that slowly grows between you will be strong and more natural because it won't feel forced and pressured. But don't think you can come to a certain point in your relationship and think you can lay on the pressure. Usually women want the guy to pay her more attention, to be more affectionate and to give her more of his time. It's never a good idea and you should always consider luring him to do all these things instead of nagging him to.
All this bonding should also be without the confusion sex can sometimes bring to a budding relationship. It can often be tempting to get into that physical relationship with that cute guy, but while you're thinking you're getting all lovey-dovey with him, he's just happy to get his hands on you and love is far from his mind.
If you want to know what makes guys fall in love, you have to be willing to put in the time, put your great personality out there and keep your goodies until he's proven himself good enough to deserve them.
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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.
