How to Date If You Are a Single Mom

Are you a single mom who still dreams of having a complete and happy family? Are you scared of what your kids might think or feel? Do you want another chance at love? Then make it happen! Don't ever think that having kids is a hindrance to finding happiness and love again. If a man asks you out, don't hesitate. Be proud to be a single mom, and keep in mind the following pointers:

Put your kid/s first.

Remember that you are a parent and that you have responsibilities to your children, so every time you go out, make sure that they are safe. Call up your trustworthy baby sitter or set your kids up on a play date with your friends' kids-they are sure to take good care of your precious little ones and would definitely understand your dating situation.

Never lie to your kid/s.

Being a single mom, your kids have no one to look up to but you. Having said that, it is your role to be honest with them about everything; otherwise, you'd fail them. It is okay to talk to your kids about your date and explain to them why you are doing it. It would be much easier for them to accept your situation if you don't keep it a secret. Dating behind your children's back is equivalent to lying to them, and lying would build up mistrust in your relationship. Sit them down, explain things, mind their reactions and respect them as well.

Take it one step at a time.

It could be quite a nerve-wracking experience having to introduce your date or your man to your kids, especially when they are old enough to ask questions. But this shouldn't hinder you from doing it. Sooner or later, you would have to face the situation, anyway. Just take small steps into bringing your man into the lives of your children. If you sense some retaliation, don't give up just yet-the reaction is relatively normal. That bridge between your kids and your man would eventually be complete and the bond would naturally occur. Just take time and don't rush things. Remember that being a single mom should not be a hindrance for finding a new love.

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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.

Date Single Parent: Tips on Having a Successful Date

Do you like to date someone but find out that he is a single parent? Are you worried that it might be difficult for both of you to go out on a date? Are you searching for the best ways on how you can date single parent?

To date single parent can be a challenge for there are various factors that you will need to consider. If it is your first time to date single parent then it can be difficult for you to adjust. However if you are really interested in him, you should not let any issues stop you from going out with him.

When you have decided to pursue the idea of letting yourself date single parent, the following tips can be helpful:

Tip # 1: Make sure that you are ready - Before you start to date single parent, ask yourself first if you are prepared to face the different issues. When you date single parent you must consider the fact that when you end having a relationship, you will have to include his child or children in every decisions that you make. You will not only be pleasing one person, you will also need to connect and get the trust of his child/children. Therefore you must be ready to face this factor.

Tip # 2: Don't put too much pressure on yourself - It is a fact that dating a single parent can be a difficult adjustment for you but you should just take it easy. You should not expect too much from yourself and your date. Let the dates or time spent hanging out with him give you enough time to slowly understand your status better. The more time you spend together, the more comfortable you will be with each other's company. Just enjoy your time with him.

Tip # 3: Be open about your feelings - When you date single parent, it is only normal for you to feel anxious about his child/children's feelings toward you. When he asks you to finally meet his children, you should be honest with your partner if you are not yet ready. You should also freely express how you feel about him and your dating situation. This will enable him to understand your side and take your worries away. When you share your real feelings, your dates will be more enjoyable.

Tip # 4: Know your expectations - When you decide to date single parent, you must have a good understanding of what to expect from your date. Once you are able to figure out properly what you expect from your dates, you can let him know about it. If you both know and feel that you give and provide what is expected, you can carry on dating. Having no clear idea about your date will leave you confused and unhappy.

Tip # 5: Stay positive - If you really like the guy and willing to date him despite his situation, then you must go for it. If you keep a positive attitude, you can have a successful and even have a serious relationship with him in the future.

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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.

A Single Parents Guide to Love, Dating, and Relationships by Shae Cooke

Any reader who has experienced a broken relationship will quickly relate to and identify with Shea Cooke's personal story, as told in her new book "Love, Dating, and Relationships: Finding Love in All the Right Places." Shea openly talks about her personal journey in the pursuit of healing and the process of finding freedom to date, rediscover trust and to allow herself to love again.

The format of the book is attractive and inviting highlighting key ideas, with thought-provoking review questions ("Catch the Drift?") These questions allow for introspection and are designed to help the reader resolve regrets, to set realistic expectations, and to restructuring wholeness. Another series of questions titled "Below the Surface" help the reader record and recognize their progress as the result of reading and applying the principles gleaned from the narrative.

Using personal experiences as well as stories from the lives of others as examples Cooke details important lessons that will help the reader avoid the pitfalls and unnecessary heartache experienced by so many. Shea stresses the need to accept personal responsibility for the results of mistakes in judgment and of the importance forgiveness plays in finding freedom and healing.

I personally appreciated the wealth of additional resources for future further reading is given through the end notes following each chapter. Cooke writes with a warmth which is encouraging. I enjoyed her sense use of subtle humor. and found her examples and illustrations encouraging.

"The Single Parent's Guide to Love, Dating, and Relationships" is an excellent resource for pastors as well as professional and lay counselors. It is an excellent guide for any individual faced with the challenge of "single parenting."

Destiny Image Publishing, Inc., 978-076843663-1

As Reviewed for Midwest Book Review

Richard R. Blake, Christian Education Consultant, Freelance Writer, Editorial Consultant