Find Love Online After Rejection

Many people wonder if you can really find love online, and it's been proven over and over again through testimonials from hoards of people online that you can. There are TV shows and websites built around the premise of finding love online because it has taken that much of a hold in our society today. It's the new dating scene for people of all ages.

It's undeniable now that online dating sites are really a place that you can find love. There are a number of different reasons why people are turning to online dating including:

Too busy with career to go out and meet people.
Convenience to look any time of day you want and not succumb to the bar scene or evening search.
Get to check out people without having to talk to each person individually.
Cost less than going on date after date after date.

And perhaps a large group of people are the one's who have been rejected in their past relationships and find the online dating scene easier and less stressful than the original way they found someone.

For example lets say you were dating someone who you really loved. They were perfect for you! You had dreams of your future together and as far as you knew you were headed in a direction towards a really committed relationship. Maybe you even are already committed to this person and have been dating for years.

In any case, whatever you feel is shattered the day your partner walks out on you and leaves you because of some lame reason they spit out. Or maybe they leave you for someone else. Or maybe they just are not happy in the relationship but didn't bother to tell you any earlier.

After you have been hit with this type of rejection it can be hard to jump into the dating scene again. Do you trust what someone is saying to you? Do you really know what they are thinking? Do you look okay, talk okay, think okay...all the things your partner who rejected you made you question start to come into play because the feeling is still so raw.

The beauty of online dating is that you get to learn a lot about them before you actually talk to them and you feel braver about yourself then if the person was standing across from you.

You don't have to act nervous and stutter because there is a buffer that is helping you get past the nervousness and move onto the getting to know you part. Sure the first date will be a little nerve-wracking but by that time you will have gotten to know your date quite well through conversations online or on the phone.

Whatever reason you have for checking out an online dating site remember that millions of other people are doing the same thing, waiting for that perfect someone to check out their profile and make a connection. Don't hold yourself back because of an old belief about dating sites! Put both feet in and see whether love is waiting online for you.

Bellaisa is the owner of the Relationship Circle, a website full of relationship advice and dating advice including where to find love online.