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2012年11月9日 星期五

Finding Love After Divorce


Finding love after a divorce may seem like a very long shot, especially if the pain of a marriage ending is still very fresh. While it may seem like it is impossible for you to ever have a second chance in love, you should know that finding love after a divorce is very possible. Here are a few things to think about once you think of starting to date again after your marriage ends:


Should you really start dating? This is the first thing to think of when you think of finding love after a divorce. Ending a marriage is a big deal, and if you try to deny how much it hurts you and start to date too soon, you might just end up hurting other people as well as yourself. A break-up is never easy, but you can get through it with time.
Have you grieved enough? As was said before, there is a proper time to grieve. This goes both ways, because while it is good to give yourself the proper amount of time to mourn your loss before finding love after divorce, it is also not healthy to mourn for too long. Of course, this amount of time is going to be dependent on you, so you need to always look at your situation objectively to see if you are indeed getting better or not. But be careful: your second chance at love might already be right in front of your eyes, but you cannot see it because you are still caught up in your failed marriage.
Take it slow. When you do decide to start dating again after your divorce, do not take it too fast. You need to be sensitive to your state of mind, because if you rush on finding love after divorce, you might end up hurting someone else in the process. While it may be okay for you to start dating again, it may be dangerous for you to get serious with someone too fast. Remember, finding love after divorce is very possible, but it is important that you take it one step at a time.

This may sound like an insurmountable challenge, especially if the pain of your divorce is still fresh, but don't lose hope. Your second chance is out there. Better days are on the horizon; and before you know it, your life will be better than ever before, and finding love after divorce is going to be a big part of that. The past is going to stay in the past, and you will live a better, healthier and happier life.




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2012年11月7日 星期三

Middle-Age Dating - Tips on Finding a Partner After 40


Do you wonder what are the odds of you finding a date; subsequently, how would you end up finding a partner after 40? You realize dating is challenging as compared when you were much younger. To help you, here are 5 middle-age dating tips on finding a partner after 40.

Leverage on Your Age. You do not have to look your age. Be smart on selecting what you wear. Do not choose clothes that someone 20 years older than you would pick. If you still have your hairstyle as if it is still the 80's, try changing your hairdresser. Do physical activities which interest you such as dancing, outdoor sports, yoga, etc. Catch up with your reading. After 40, you can dress and act like you are younger, but, think wiser.

Be Busy, Not Crazy Busy. Focus on your work. This will prevent you from thinking and feeling sorry that you have not met your partner after 40. Spend time for yourself and, your friends; but, be open to meeting new people to add to your circle. Take time to go on vacation. Taking time off re-energizes your spirit. You would look calm and refreshed. If you are too busy, you are blocking someone from showing up in your life. How do you imagine adding someone to spend time with if your calendar is booked?

Do Not Lower Your Standards. The dilemma that most singles after 40 worry about (particularly women), is that, they would not find anyone. They would be doomed to singlehood for the rest of their life. In effect, they would be more likely willing to settle to whoever is available. This is not going to be beneficial. Bear in mind that changing anyone is out of the question.

Let Go of Your Ex. Alexander Graham Bell quoted that, "when one door closes, another opens; but we often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door that we do not see the one which has opened for us." Similarly, when you keep your attention to what you missed or how you have been hurt, you are not in a welcoming mode. Clean up your emotional baggage. Simultaneously, consider disposing personal effects related to your ex no matter how much you value them. This is a great way to signify that you are free from attachment.

Act Only When Inspired. The common denominator that happens to singles after 40 is that they become serious in finding a partner. In this present time and age, there are more opportunities to meet other singles. You name it...scout in online dating sites, Facebook, speed dating events, and dating agencies among others. Not satisfied with these choices, some recruit their friends' help in their quest. All of these activities, done collectively, beget desperation. When you come from this state, it would reflect in your persona. Do things that would make you joyful like petting your dog, listening to music, walking in the park or doing something creative. Once you are inspired, then, you can use any of the aforementioned search channels but with no expectation.

Life is short. There is no time for brooding. Be in charge of your destiny. Enjoy every moment after 40. In time, you would find someone if you practice these 5 middle-age dating tips on finding a partner after 40.




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2012年11月5日 星期一

How to Keep a Man Interested After the First Date


Do you find that your first dates don't often lead to second or third dates, and wonder how to keep a man interested? Are you afraid that you'll never have a long-term relationship? Do you wonder if you'll ever learn the right techniques for successful dating? Catching a guy's eye is one thing, but holding his attention is another. If you find that your relationships are ending before they even get started, it may be time to do some constructive self-diagnosis of your dating habits and behavior. Before your next date, ask yourself the following:

Are you picking the right guy?

Sometimes when a relationship flounders, it's not because of anything specific that either of you has done wrong. You just may not be compatible. We often confuse attraction with compatibility, but they're two different sides of the coin. You may be attracted to a guy but have absolutely nothing in common with him. That makes it difficult to build a foundation for your relationship. All the chemistry in the world is not going to make up for a basic lack of anything in common.

Or the reverse may be true: you may have been paired up with a guy - perhaps by a well-meaning friend, because you have so much in common. But when you get together, there's just no spark. You don't want to be dating your brother - so chemistry is important. Before you even plan for a second date, always ask yourself if you feel a good balance of both attraction and comfort. If not, the equation may not make for success. Knowing how to keep a man interested is sometimes a matter of picking the right guy to begin with.

Are you moving too fast?

Probably the dating behaviors that spook a guy most are those that make you appear pushy or desperate. Slow down and enjoy the early stages of a relationship. Stop thinking about how you're going to snare this guy as if he were a big-game trophy. Now is the stage to even play a little hard to get. Let him approach you, but be prepared to meet him halfway. Guys enjoy the pursuit of a new relationship, so give him room to try out his moves! Knowing how to keep a man interested is also a matter of taking things nice and slow.

Are you sending mixed signals?

It's great to flirt and play a little when you're dating, but make sure you're not sending out mixed signals. For example, playing hard to get is one thing, but acting as though you like a guy one minute, only to ignore him the next - not cool. Or taking flirtation to the level of overt sexual teasing will backfire if you really want to take things slow in that department. Flirtation is healthy when it's used to attract a man's attention. But make sure you're not playing head games or jerking a guy around emotionally in the process. Know what you want, and let the signals you send be compatible with your underlying message. Knowing how to keep a man interested is definitely a matter of sending the right signals.

So before you despair of ever making a relationship work, ask yourself these questions next time you meet a guy and start to date. No one has 100% success in the dating field, but by doing some healthy self-diagnosis, you'll soon be able to demonstrate that you know how to keep a man interested after the first date and beyond.




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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.




2012年10月12日 星期五

Love After Loss - Obstacles on the Path to Love


If you are a widow who is thinking about finding love again after your loss, you may be wondering if you are ready. Most likely you are feeling lonely, still grieving the loss of your husband and wishing things were different. Yet, you may also be thinking that 40 years or so is a very long time to be by yourself.

What obstacles are you facing when it comes to seeking love after loss? Some of the obstacles may come from inside your own head. Others may come from friends and family. Here are some things you may be experiencing:


You may have young children and worry how they will respond to your seeking a new love.
You may have mixed feelings about dating. You are aching for companionship, but you feel like it would be a betrayal, since to your way of thinking, you are still married to your late husband.
You may worry that you will never find someone as wonderful as your late husband.
You may not believe that it is possible for you to find love again.
If you have begun dating already, you may fear your friends and family members will tell you, "It's too soon."
You may even have hostile reactions from your relations when you decide to date again.
Friends and relatives may tell you that it is now your lot in life to take care of others and let go of any ideas about finding a new love.
Or they may tell you that you should get out more and date. They may do this way before you feel you are ready.
People may actually insist on setting you up on dates, determined to help you "get over" your loss.

The sense of isolation and loneliness can increase when you have all these thoughts and feelings running around in your head. Sadly, in our culture, people are expected to grieve quickly, in private, and get over it. For example, if you have a job, you may get three days off to grieve, and then you are supposed to get right back into the job as if you never lost the love of your life.

In the same way, people hold many judgments about how you are supposed to progress through the grief. In order to make your way through this obstacle course of mourning, it is up to you to set your own pace. No one can dictate to you how long to take. If and when you are ready to date is your business. Take your time and surround yourself with supportive people.




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Dating a Friend - Problems, Or Living Happily Ever After?


Dating friends - it can be so complicated. Love and romance - They can be thrilling and yet can cause so much unhappiness. One question people ask is - is it OK to be dating friends?

Are You Tired of Being Lonely? The whole point of dating is to find that special someone who will give us a proposal, a wedding and marriage, than being lonely. But we can be the main attraction for men who are looking for a sexual hook up, a fling. We may attract men who are looking for friends with benefits arrangements. We may attract someone who is not really into us, but pretends to be.

We may be able to find something better if we think about dating friends.

A Friend is a Quality Guy. When we choose a new car or a new house, or food to eat, we want quality. How much more important quality is when we are looking for a boyfriend / husband / lover / soul mate. But when are dating friends, we have chosen to date someone with whom we are familiar. We know that this guy will not hurt us.

What are the Benefits?

One benefit is that you are already relaxed with this man. When we are dating friends, we are dating someone with whom we already have a relationship. We will not feel a need to impress him or to pretend to be somebody that we are not.

So, What IS the Danger?

There may be no problem at all. But if we have a friend and try to be his girlfriend; if we speak words of love and romance AND HE DOES NOT FEEL THE SAME - we may lose a good friend. Things may become awkward. Our friendship may never go back to what it was.

Can You Live Happily Ever After?

I am not sure about the happily ever after part, but happily for a good, long time is possible. Make sure you chose your friend carefully. Then give it a shot. Just be careful when dating friends.




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2012年10月5日 星期五

Dating After Divorce - Open Up to New Ways to Meet Prospects


It's not always easy to maintain a positive attitude and try new ways to meet people. Yet, a good outlook and a willing spirit are crucial to your dating success. What can you do to encourage yourself to break from routine and experiment with new ways to meet people?

The Foundation for Out-of-the-Box Thinking

There is a key phrase that can be relied on as the foundation for out-of-the-box thinking and a positive outlook about looking for love: Try asking yourself "What the heck?" In other words, what's the downside of trying something new?

Free Yourself from Unfounded Fears

When asking clients what contributed to their dating success, so many respond, "I finally decided, 'What the heck?' and posted my profile, went to the dance, or said yes to the blind date. Saying "No" to these methods hadn't produced the results they wanted. Somehow these people managed to push past the fear and realize there was very little to lose except their single status.

They asked themselves, "What's the worst thing that could happen? What have I got to lose?" This is a great way to free yourself up from unfounded fears. The likelihood of meeting an axe murder is statistically quite slim.

Adopting a "What the Heck?" Attitude Moves You into Action

Naturally trying anything new can cause trepidation. But, without a willingness to explore various dating avenues, my happy clients who found love wouldn't be with their partners today. Adopting a "What the heck?" attitude will help you put aside fears in favor of action, to move toward the goal of meeting Mr./Ms. Right.

How Beth Met Sam

Here's a great example. Beth had been complaining that she was having trouble meeting men, but admitted that she was doing very little to help her cause. To shake things up, she thought "What the heck?" and placed a personal ad in a local weekly paper, screened lots of responses and decided to meet a few of the men.

When Beth met Sam, she discovered they had a lot in common - in fact more than she realized because as it turns out, he lived right around the corner from her. Without placing that ad, Beth probably never would have met her neighbor Sam, who was an active, kind-hearted man with a great sense of humor.

Say "What the Heck?" to Limiting Thoughts that Hold You Back

If you are holding yourself back from meeting prospects because the methods seem daunting, or contrived, take the pressure off and convince yourself that you have nothing to lose but those lonely weekends. Say "What the heck?" to limiting thoughts that keep you from trying new things and get on with finding the love you want!




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2012年9月23日 星期日

Make a Guy Fall in Love - The Trick to Happily Ever After


Do you wonder about how to make a guy fall in love? Are you with the guy you want but he won't commit? How can you avoid making a guy fall in lust and make him fall in love instead? If these questions sound like something you think about a lot, then this article can help you. If you think you have found the right guy, then read his information and learn how to make a guy fall in love.

You have to realize how men think to make a guy fall in love with you. Men are just as able and willing to fall in love but they tend o confuse love with lust. This is because they think differently than women do. If you don't understand the differences then your relationship can become very frustrating.

Men are more deliberate and indirect when it comes to love than woman are. It is something they go through rather then something that happens. You might be waiting for him to commit, but he is very likely trying to move slowly so that the fall doesn't hurt. It's not wonder why men and women get so frustrated with each other. So But patients is a must if you want guy to fall in love with you. On the other hand there are ways of getting him to speed up

Try mini dates for a start. A mini date is where you spend a very short amount of time, compared with a normal date, at several different places. This will help both of you bond faster because it will make it feel like you have been through ore together and therefore have known each other longer.

You can go to lunch then 'drop by' or 'stop off' to get something or meet some of your friends. Make sure you spend the time with him and try to keep each trip down to 15 minutes so. You don't want t rush him, just the pace at which he is able to fall in love with you. You can make a guy fall in love by growing your attachment to each other by using mini dates and taking your pace slowly in order to get to know one another better.




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2012年9月13日 星期四

Dating After a Divorce - Starting New


Are you considering dating after divorce? Has it been only a few months since your divorce has been finalized, but you want to go and put yourself out there and date again? Or have you been told how important it is to date after divorce, but you're not sure you're ready to meet someone new?

Not every woman is prepared to date after a divorce after the same length of time. Some will jump back into the dating scene in a heartbeat, but many feel a need to spend some time alone first. Read on to see when you should begin to date after a divorce and how to get back on that dating horse.

Rediscover the Woman

For some women, marriage simply swallows them up and they disappear with the relationship. They lose all sense of who they are and, over time, come to take on the role that is expected of them as a wife, forgetting completely who they once were. Before you decide to put yourself back out there again, take some time to discover who you really are. You may be surprised by what you find.

What have you set aside these past years in order to be with your husband? What sacrifices have you made? This is the time to catch up with the woman you left behind.

Grieving Process

Few are the women who leave divorce court sincerely celebrating their newfound freedom. For most of us, this is a difficult and heartbreaking process. Not only have we lost the man we loved, but it's the death of that marital dream that also pains us.

Many of us have dozens of plans for our future together with our husband and to have that all destroyed can be hard to swallow.

Take the time to mourn the loss of your love and your dream.

Dating After a Divorce

It's often tempting to talk about our divorce when we start dating someone new. The topic of past relationships is brought up and before you know it, you're going on and on about how badly your ex treated you, or, worse still, you're going on and on about how much you miss him and still love him.

Whatever anger, pain or angst you need to get off your chest about your ex-husband, do it with your friends. Spend a nice long evening venting and saying everything you feel and think about this broken relationship. Then you can meet this new guy with something else to talk about.

Eager Beaver

If you've become accustomed to living with a man and you feel the need to re-enter a relationship quickly, you might be setting yourself up for another failed romance. Not only are you apt to fall for the first guy who is remotely husband material, but you'll be going out on the dating scene with a distinguishable air of desperation.

Take the time meet the man who'll truly make you happy instead of settling for someone who'll simply replace your ex. You'll be happier in the end and dating after divorce will be a success instead of another failure.




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2012年9月11日 星期二

Finding Love After 40 - Are You Doing Everything You Can To Meet Men?


Have you been in the dating scene for a while? If so you know how frustrating it can be. Meeting guys in the traditional ways are not so ideal anymore. Waiting for a friend to fix you up with someone or hoping to meet Mr. Right in a bar these days is just going to make you more frustrated. I know I have been there and I have tried it all. I refused to do the online dating sites, I thought I was just going to meet someone through friends or out in the single scenes of the New York city bars. Well I was sadly mistaken. I had already dated all of my friends friends and anyone they could find to fix me up with. I figured I was destined to be alone forever.

I refused to go to any of the online dating sites. Everyone told me that I should at least try it. I just wasn't sure. People also suggested that I go to a personal matchmaker but I couldn't wrap my head around spending a large sum of money and maybe still end up alone. Then one Saturday night when I was home alone and feeling sorry for myself I decided to check out the dating sites. I am not going to say it was the best thing that I ever did, but it definitely was good for me to keep an open mind about meeting men in any ways that I could. I got to the point where I was like it can't make my situation any worse, but there were possibilities that it could help me meet a man and have the relationship that I wanted.

Once I had opened the door to the online dating sites it was like I had opened the flood gates. I joined every site I possibly could find. I became addicted to these sites. I was constantly checking them to see if I had any new emails. It became fun after a while and I went on a million and one dates. This wasn't the way I ended up meeting my Mr. Right but it did show me that I was closing myself off to other ways I could meet men. I also contacted a personal matchmaker a friend had told me about. I had decided that if I was serious about finding a man I had to make sure I put myself out there every way I possibly could. If I wanted to find true love than I had to do anything that I could possibly do to meet men.

Dating is like looking for a job. The more resumes you send out the better your odds are of finding the right job. Well in the dating world, the more dates you go on the better your odds are of finding the right man. You have to put yourself out there any way you can. Don't shut yourself off to things because you don't understand them or you are scared. You should be doing the exact opposite. Open yourself up to all possibilities, try new things and be excited about them. If you are serious about finding love then you should be on at least three online sites, meet with a matchmaker (a lot of them are free for women), try personal ads and make sure everyone you associate with knows that you are looking to meet someone. You never know who someone else knows and that someone could be the love of your life!!!




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2012年9月3日 星期一

Dating After Divorce: A Guide For Women


Do you struggle with the concept of dating after divorce? Will you ever get past the pain of a previous relationship and feel comfortable in a new relationship? What about your children - is it bad for them to see you date? With the divorce rate hovering at 50%, millions of women struggle with the issue of reclaiming a dating life for themselves after getting divorced. Particularly when there are children involved, the thought of dating again seems to be a dangerous proposition. But by considering the following questions, you may find that dating after divorce becomes much easier to do over time.

Why do I feel guilty about dating after divorce?

Whatever the reason your marriage broke up, you or your partner initiated a divorce, and now, hopefully, you're both ready to move on. But old behavioral patterns die hard, and for someone who spent years in a committed relationship, it may be difficult for you to date without it somehow feeling like a betrayal. Understanding that what's in your head and in your heart are two different things, so do some reality-checking from time to time. Remind yourself that you are entitled to a blank slate in a new dating situation, and that it's okay to flirt and even be intimate, once you're emotionally ready to do so. Until you do feel ready, take any new relationship slowly.

Why do I keep picking the same guy in every relationship?

Do you ever feel like you're in the middle of a remake of Groundhog Day? Most people have a tendency to repeat the same patterns of behavior and make the same choices throughout life. Don't be surprised if every guy you date starts to remind you of your ex-husband! That feeling is natural. We do tend to be attracted to the same physical type, as well as people with similar interests and temperament. Treat any relationship in your life as what psychologists call a "corrective" one: learn from both its mistakes and its successes. If your husband had a bad temper, for example, that should be a warning signal to you in future relationships. But if your husband had a great sense of humor that got you through some difficult times in the past, then you've learned to value that in a relationship.

How do I help my children deal with my dating after divorce?

One of the biggest struggles for newly divorced women when they begin dating after divorce is: what about the children? The good news is that you don't have to automatically choose between your children and a love life. The sobering news is that, when children are involved, you must be especially careful before you thrust someone new into their life. Always give any relationship a long warming-up period, both for your children's sake and your own. Until you know that you want to date someone regularly, arrange the first few dates away from home - and under no circumstances have him sleep over! Only after you are sure that you are comfortable with him should you start introducing him slowly into your children's lives. If the relationship gets serious, you'll want to see this guy in a variety of settings with you and your children, to make sure that he is potential step-father material -- even if neither of you is ready yet for that next step. But having your children see you in a positive relationship can be a healing experience for them as well.

Dating after divorce is never easy, particularly when the decisions you make can have a direct bearing upon your children's lives. But by asking yourself the right questions and being willing to follow expert advice, you will find that life can be fun again - and even romantic!




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2012年8月12日 星期日

Find Love Online After Rejection


Many people wonder if you can really find love online, and it's been proven over and over again through testimonials from hoards of people online that you can. There are TV shows and websites built around the premise of finding love online because it has taken that much of a hold in our society today. It's the new dating scene for people of all ages.

It's undeniable now that online dating sites are really a place that you can find love. There are a number of different reasons why people are turning to online dating including:


Too busy with career to go out and meet people.
Convenience to look any time of day you want and not succumb to the bar scene or evening search.
Get to check out people without having to talk to each person individually.
Cost less than going on date after date after date.

And perhaps a large group of people are the one's who have been rejected in their past relationships and find the online dating scene easier and less stressful than the original way they found someone.

For example lets say you were dating someone who you really loved. They were perfect for you! You had dreams of your future together and as far as you knew you were headed in a direction towards a really committed relationship. Maybe you even are already committed to this person and have been dating for years.

In any case, whatever you feel is shattered the day your partner walks out on you and leaves you because of some lame reason they spit out. Or maybe they leave you for someone else. Or maybe they just are not happy in the relationship but didn't bother to tell you any earlier.

After you have been hit with this type of rejection it can be hard to jump into the dating scene again. Do you trust what someone is saying to you? Do you really know what they are thinking? Do you look okay, talk okay, think okay...all the things your partner who rejected you made you question start to come into play because the feeling is still so raw.

The beauty of online dating is that you get to learn a lot about them before you actually talk to them and you feel braver about yourself then if the person was standing across from you.

You don't have to act nervous and stutter because there is a buffer that is helping you get past the nervousness and move onto the getting to know you part. Sure the first date will be a little nerve-wracking but by that time you will have gotten to know your date quite well through conversations online or on the phone.

Whatever reason you have for checking out an online dating site remember that millions of other people are doing the same thing, waiting for that perfect someone to check out their profile and make a connection. Don't hold yourself back because of an old belief about dating sites! Put both feet in and see whether love is waiting online for you.




Bellaisa is the owner of the Relationship Circle, a website full of relationship advice and dating advice including where to find love online.




2012年8月9日 星期四

Dating After 50 - 3 Tips To Meet A Reliable Date Fast!


Are you interested in dating after 50? Well you are in the right place. Make sure you read this entire article to get all the tricks on how to become the master of dating after 50!

I am going to share with you the importance of containing your nerves, why you shouldn't appear desperate and finally why it is crucial to improve your appearance.

Dating After 50 Tip 1 - Do Not Let Your Nerves Get To You

A lot of people who are interested in dating after 50 have had a large break from relationships, agreed? They tend to get nervous about meeting someone new. This is for a number of reasons. This could be self-consciousness, feeling ugly or feeling guilty about moving on from their ex-partner.

The key to succeeding with dating after 50 is to get your confidence back. Now I know this is easier said than done. Even harder if you are dating after a divorce. It will take time but in a short while you will begin to love dating again!

So, make sure you get your nerves under control and move forward.

Dating After 50 Tip 2 - Do Not Get Desperate For A Partner!

This is one of those dating tips that many people ignore. Why is that? Simple, they feel that it does not apply to them. This is the thing though, you cannot see it happening! When you are dating after 50 you need to play it cool so you do not look too needy!

Being needy is always seen as a 'turn off'! So I advice you to play it cool and network with as many potential love partners as possible.

Dating After 50 Tip 3 - Improve You Image!

This may sound harsh but you need to make sure that you look good. I do not mean to succeed in dating after 50 you have to look like a model! I mean you need to take pride in your appearance.




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