Have you ever thought about what it takes to earn a man's love? Is there a man in your life who just doesn't seem to want to commit to your relationship? Do you want to see your relationship hopelessly fall apart, or are you ready to do something to take it to the next level? Listen up ladies. Contrary to your beliefs, love often doesn't just happen. Love is something that must be earned, and unless you try to earn a man's love, he may never love you the way you love him.
Although it will take time to earn a man's love, there are a number of things you can do to get things moving in the right direction. The most important thing of all is to give a man some incentive to want you. Instead of making yourself open and available to a man, create a sense of mystery around yourself. Hold back on sharing your thoughts and feelings. Instead of telling a man everything about yourself, let him figure you out for himself. The more curious he is about you, the more he'll want to know who you really are.
Try this experiment on your next date. Go out for a night on the town, but instead of just visiting a restaurant or a club, hit up a bunch of different places. Get a drink at a couple of different bars and then grab a snack or a cup of coffee near the end of the night. By giving your man a chance to spend time with you in a variety of different environments, he'll see that there's more to you than he may have originally thought. If he's really into you, he'll realize that the only way he'll get to know you better is by spending more time with you.
Once you've been on a couple of dates, try hanging out like friends. This doesn't mean you can't be romantic, but both you and your boyfriend should have a chance to discover that you can be casual around each other as well. Above all else, men look for partners that they can relax and have fun with. A pressure-free environment is a great opportunity for you both to explore your deeper feelings for each other.
If you can make it this far through the dating process, you will have laid a solid foundation for love. All you will need to do is to be yourself and let him fall in love with the real you. It almost seems too easy, but earning a man's love doesn't take that much effort at all. It's simply a matter of learning how to relax. If the chemistry is there, nature will take over and earn a man's love for you all on its own.
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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.
