Dating Rules for Women - Doing It Right in 2010

Are you looking for the hottest in dating rules for women in the year 2010? Have you looked up the dating rules for women of days gone by and they don't really suit your sensibilities? Do you want to avoid being too conservative, but you don't want to be too loose either?

Just like with virtually everything else in our society, dating rules for women have shifted, changed, and some of them have been eliminated altogether... thankfully. So what's a woman to do these days? Read on and see the dating rules for women you should be aware of.

Promiscuity

Some have come to call this the day of the oversexed. We see sex everywhere, we give it away in the bat of an eye and we've come to put little importance in the act at all. As far as we've come as women over the years, it's almost ironic how we've regressed to the very position men put us in hundreds of years ago.

Some may argue that we are at least doing it now through our own volition. If we want to sleep with a guy on the first date, that's our choice.

True, but while you can control what you do and don't do, you can't control how the guy is going to perceive your actions. Despite being pleased with the ease in which you throw yourself into his bed, many men looking for a serious match tend to have a negative view of women who do this.

Calling Card

Your grandmother would probably tell you that she would have never even dreamt of calling a man. It was outrageous and unacceptable... not to mention unladylike. But today, not only do men accept having a woman call them, they expect it. This aspect of the dating process no longer holds the negative connotations it once did.

But within this old and discarded rule harbors another. How often can you call him before you begin to look like a nuisance? This can greatly vary from guy to guy. Play it safe and keep the number of calls to him at a bare minimum.

Competitive Edge

Your grandmother probably sat back and let the guy do all the work. He arranged the date, paid for it and catered to her every whim. He had a great job, interesting hobbies and an active social life. Few women back then had little with which to compete with the men they dated.

Today, we have a little too much to compete about, however we forget that the dating arena isn't necessarily the best place to bring that competition. The guy you meet doesn't want to compare the importance of his job to yours, nor his salary.

If you insist on trying to prove to him that you're just as good, if not better than he is, the date is almost guaranteed to go sour. Either he'll think you're simply petty, or you'll win the competition, but will lose a potentially great guy in the process.

Use your common sense as you use these dating rules of women to your best advantage.

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Rules on Dating - Doing It Right

With the constant changes that touch our society are you wondering what dating rules you should follow? Have you seen a variety of dating rules that just don't seem to make sense? Would you like to know what dating rules could really benefit you and get you into a solid relationship?

Part of the problem with certain sets of dating rules is that they don't take into consideration the vast differences in women. What might work like a charm for one woman can feel awkward and unnatural for another. The following rules aren't set in concrete, so take them into consideration, but alter them just enough to work into your personal lifestyle.

Kissing on the First Date

Let's face it, women are doing a whole lot more than just kissing on the first date. Many women will go all out and give a guy - a guy they barely know - all that they have. These are often women who refuse to be prim and proper and they believe that hooking a man with sex is the best and only way to go.

Ignoring the fact that many men will make a quick judgment based on this - which is bad enough - let's look at the other negative aspect of this sort of move.

Those first dates are sizzling with anticipation. Passion churns and burns and reaches epic proportions as you slowly make your way to that hopeful eventuality. He's working to get closer to you. With each date you have, you're eager to touch him more and more.

This is literally the most exciting time in a couple. All that angst and uncertainty. Why would you want to kill all that by jumping into bed with him the very first night?

The Calling Game

Sure your mother's advice never to call a man is outdated. Women are calling men all the time and men accept that as a normal function of the dating process. The problem, however, is when women take it upon themselves to make a series of harassing calls.

Unless you have something specific to talk to him about, or he has given you explicit permission to do so, don't call him repeatedly. Calling him at work at noon to ask what he's having for lunch, then calling just before five to see what he's doing after work, then calling him at home again to see how his dinner was can quickly spell trouble in his eyes.

Be reasonable, not annoying.

Paying Up

This can be very touchy. Some men will insist on footing the bill, while others insist the woman pay her own way. Whether it's their way of throwing feminism back in our face or it's simply their way of protecting their own finances from the woman who'll take advantage of him, you need to respect his choice and not make a fuss.

It is rather hypocritical to say we want to be treated equally then turn around and insist a guy pay our way when we can very well take care of it ourselves.

If you're the type who is independent, don't be insulted if he offers to pay for you and please don't spew out a feminist rant. Politely decline all while letting him know you appreciate the gesture. Remember, he's not trying to be chauvinistic; he's just trying to be nice and gallant.

Dating rules should make your dates fun and bring you to a healthy relationship.

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Finding Love After 40 - Are You Doing Everything You Can To Meet Men?

Have you been in the dating scene for a while? If so you know how frustrating it can be. Meeting guys in the traditional ways are not so ideal anymore. Waiting for a friend to fix you up with someone or hoping to meet Mr. Right in a bar these days is just going to make you more frustrated. I know I have been there and I have tried it all. I refused to do the online dating sites, I thought I was just going to meet someone through friends or out in the single scenes of the New York city bars. Well I was sadly mistaken. I had already dated all of my friends friends and anyone they could find to fix me up with. I figured I was destined to be alone forever.

I refused to go to any of the online dating sites. Everyone told me that I should at least try it. I just wasn't sure. People also suggested that I go to a personal matchmaker but I couldn't wrap my head around spending a large sum of money and maybe still end up alone. Then one Saturday night when I was home alone and feeling sorry for myself I decided to check out the dating sites. I am not going to say it was the best thing that I ever did, but it definitely was good for me to keep an open mind about meeting men in any ways that I could. I got to the point where I was like it can't make my situation any worse, but there were possibilities that it could help me meet a man and have the relationship that I wanted.

Once I had opened the door to the online dating sites it was like I had opened the flood gates. I joined every site I possibly could find. I became addicted to these sites. I was constantly checking them to see if I had any new emails. It became fun after a while and I went on a million and one dates. This wasn't the way I ended up meeting my Mr. Right but it did show me that I was closing myself off to other ways I could meet men. I also contacted a personal matchmaker a friend had told me about. I had decided that if I was serious about finding a man I had to make sure I put myself out there every way I possibly could. If I wanted to find true love than I had to do anything that I could possibly do to meet men.

Dating is like looking for a job. The more resumes you send out the better your odds are of finding the right job. Well in the dating world, the more dates you go on the better your odds are of finding the right man. You have to put yourself out there any way you can. Don't shut yourself off to things because you don't understand them or you are scared. You should be doing the exact opposite. Open yourself up to all possibilities, try new things and be excited about them. If you are serious about finding love then you should be on at least three online sites, meet with a matchmaker (a lot of them are free for women), try personal ads and make sure everyone you associate with knows that you are looking to meet someone. You never know who someone else knows and that someone could be the love of your life!!!

Meredith Rose is a relationship expert and writes dating/relationship blogs, articles and newsletters for women and men. She has helped hundreds of people find TRUE LOVE!

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