Are you looking for the hottest in dating rules for women in the year 2010? Have you looked up the dating rules for women of days gone by and they don't really suit your sensibilities? Do you want to avoid being too conservative, but you don't want to be too loose either?
Just like with virtually everything else in our society, dating rules for women have shifted, changed, and some of them have been eliminated altogether... thankfully. So what's a woman to do these days? Read on and see the dating rules for women you should be aware of.
Promiscuity
Some have come to call this the day of the oversexed. We see sex everywhere, we give it away in the bat of an eye and we've come to put little importance in the act at all. As far as we've come as women over the years, it's almost ironic how we've regressed to the very position men put us in hundreds of years ago.
Some may argue that we are at least doing it now through our own volition. If we want to sleep with a guy on the first date, that's our choice.
True, but while you can control what you do and don't do, you can't control how the guy is going to perceive your actions. Despite being pleased with the ease in which you throw yourself into his bed, many men looking for a serious match tend to have a negative view of women who do this.
Calling Card
Your grandmother would probably tell you that she would have never even dreamt of calling a man. It was outrageous and unacceptable... not to mention unladylike. But today, not only do men accept having a woman call them, they expect it. This aspect of the dating process no longer holds the negative connotations it once did.
But within this old and discarded rule harbors another. How often can you call him before you begin to look like a nuisance? This can greatly vary from guy to guy. Play it safe and keep the number of calls to him at a bare minimum.
Competitive Edge
Your grandmother probably sat back and let the guy do all the work. He arranged the date, paid for it and catered to her every whim. He had a great job, interesting hobbies and an active social life. Few women back then had little with which to compete with the men they dated.
Today, we have a little too much to compete about, however we forget that the dating arena isn't necessarily the best place to bring that competition. The guy you meet doesn't want to compare the importance of his job to yours, nor his salary.
If you insist on trying to prove to him that you're just as good, if not better than he is, the date is almost guaranteed to go sour. Either he'll think you're simply petty, or you'll win the competition, but will lose a potentially great guy in the process.
Use your common sense as you use these dating rules of women to your best advantage.
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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.
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