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2012年11月30日 星期五

Loving and Honest Relationships Right From the Start


If you've decided to step back into the world of relationships, dating can feel pretty awkward at first, if not downright terrifying. After being married, having kids and getting divorced, we can't say we always enjoyed the experience, but we sure did learn a lot. In fact, it was a time of transformation for us. We ended up learning more about ourselves than we ever could have on our own. We're talking about abilities such as learning to speak wisely, to listen lovingly, to stop trying to control our partner or make them turn into carbon copies of ourselves, and to get over having unrealistic expectations of them.

Here is one very practical tip we learned and practiced for having a successful relationship. We call this one the "Date the Four Seasons" tip. Once you are seeing each other exclusively, date for one full year. By dating through the four seasons, you get to experience before marriage many of the events and situations that you will have to live through each year together.

For example, Lewis is Jewish and Diane is Catholic. Diane is much more socially active than Lewis during her holiday from Thanksgiving until New Year's Day. For Diane, it's party time with all the annual gatherings to attend. While these are enjoyable for Lewis, he found there were too many events, too close together. So in choosing Lewis, Diane accepted that he might not attend every single event with her. Lewis, in choosing Diane, accepted that she would attend these events with or without him.

In the summer, Diane discovered that Lewis's job required him to work twelve-hour days during the months of May and June. Lewis learned that Diane visits her mom every summer for two to three weeks in July. Lewis vacations with his children in July and camps with his men's group in August. Lewis realized that Diane would not choose to sit through the long High Holiday service conducted in Hebrew in September. In October, Lewis learned that he'd be spending that month eating and drinking from pumpkin plates and mugs, and in almost every room he would find witches, spiders and skeletons.

We have a friend whose ex-husband told her she became so irritable due to the heat in the summertime that he actually couldn't be around her in those months. We wonder if they both might have avoided a big mistake if he had dated her during the summer?!

Are you getting the picture of the full range of experience that dating throughout the four seasons provides? Enjoy your relationship! Dating has its ups and downs, but, as with any adventure, the rewards can be fantastic.




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2012年11月7日 星期三

Dating Rules for Women - Doing It Right in 2010


Are you looking for the hottest in dating rules for women in the year 2010? Have you looked up the dating rules for women of days gone by and they don't really suit your sensibilities? Do you want to avoid being too conservative, but you don't want to be too loose either?

Just like with virtually everything else in our society, dating rules for women have shifted, changed, and some of them have been eliminated altogether... thankfully. So what's a woman to do these days? Read on and see the dating rules for women you should be aware of.

Promiscuity

Some have come to call this the day of the oversexed. We see sex everywhere, we give it away in the bat of an eye and we've come to put little importance in the act at all. As far as we've come as women over the years, it's almost ironic how we've regressed to the very position men put us in hundreds of years ago.

Some may argue that we are at least doing it now through our own volition. If we want to sleep with a guy on the first date, that's our choice.

True, but while you can control what you do and don't do, you can't control how the guy is going to perceive your actions. Despite being pleased with the ease in which you throw yourself into his bed, many men looking for a serious match tend to have a negative view of women who do this.

Calling Card

Your grandmother would probably tell you that she would have never even dreamt of calling a man. It was outrageous and unacceptable... not to mention unladylike. But today, not only do men accept having a woman call them, they expect it. This aspect of the dating process no longer holds the negative connotations it once did.

But within this old and discarded rule harbors another. How often can you call him before you begin to look like a nuisance? This can greatly vary from guy to guy. Play it safe and keep the number of calls to him at a bare minimum.

Competitive Edge

Your grandmother probably sat back and let the guy do all the work. He arranged the date, paid for it and catered to her every whim. He had a great job, interesting hobbies and an active social life. Few women back then had little with which to compete with the men they dated.

Today, we have a little too much to compete about, however we forget that the dating arena isn't necessarily the best place to bring that competition. The guy you meet doesn't want to compare the importance of his job to yours, nor his salary.

If you insist on trying to prove to him that you're just as good, if not better than he is, the date is almost guaranteed to go sour. Either he'll think you're simply petty, or you'll win the competition, but will lose a potentially great guy in the process.

Use your common sense as you use these dating rules of women to your best advantage.




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2012年10月26日 星期五

Rules on Dating - Doing It Right


With the constant changes that touch our society are you wondering what dating rules you should follow? Have you seen a variety of dating rules that just don't seem to make sense? Would you like to know what dating rules could really benefit you and get you into a solid relationship?

Part of the problem with certain sets of dating rules is that they don't take into consideration the vast differences in women. What might work like a charm for one woman can feel awkward and unnatural for another. The following rules aren't set in concrete, so take them into consideration, but alter them just enough to work into your personal lifestyle.

Kissing on the First Date

Let's face it, women are doing a whole lot more than just kissing on the first date. Many women will go all out and give a guy - a guy they barely know - all that they have. These are often women who refuse to be prim and proper and they believe that hooking a man with sex is the best and only way to go.

Ignoring the fact that many men will make a quick judgment based on this - which is bad enough - let's look at the other negative aspect of this sort of move.

Those first dates are sizzling with anticipation. Passion churns and burns and reaches epic proportions as you slowly make your way to that hopeful eventuality. He's working to get closer to you. With each date you have, you're eager to touch him more and more.

This is literally the most exciting time in a couple. All that angst and uncertainty. Why would you want to kill all that by jumping into bed with him the very first night?

The Calling Game

Sure your mother's advice never to call a man is outdated. Women are calling men all the time and men accept that as a normal function of the dating process. The problem, however, is when women take it upon themselves to make a series of harassing calls.

Unless you have something specific to talk to him about, or he has given you explicit permission to do so, don't call him repeatedly. Calling him at work at noon to ask what he's having for lunch, then calling just before five to see what he's doing after work, then calling him at home again to see how his dinner was can quickly spell trouble in his eyes.

Be reasonable, not annoying.

Paying Up

This can be very touchy. Some men will insist on footing the bill, while others insist the woman pay her own way. Whether it's their way of throwing feminism back in our face or it's simply their way of protecting their own finances from the woman who'll take advantage of him, you need to respect his choice and not make a fuss.

It is rather hypocritical to say we want to be treated equally then turn around and insist a guy pay our way when we can very well take care of it ourselves.

If you're the type who is independent, don't be insulted if he offers to pay for you and please don't spew out a feminist rant. Politely decline all while letting him know you appreciate the gesture. Remember, he's not trying to be chauvinistic; he's just trying to be nice and gallant.

Dating rules should make your dates fun and bring you to a healthy relationship.




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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.




2012年10月24日 星期三

Where's My Mr Right - Here's How to Find Your True Love


How much do you believe in finding your true love? Where will you go to find it? Most important is how will you know that you have found your true love? Since everyone searches for his or her one true love it has been a topic of conversation forever. It's wonderful when some succeed the first time around. Some aren't so lucky and have to keep trying after falling again and again. If you are one of the people that are still searching and really don't know how to find true love, read on to get these great tips.

You have some options

True love can virtually be anywhere. It will show up when you least expect it. But it isn't an option to just sit around waiting and hoping it will show up. You have to get out there and meet people. Go to the places singles tend to gather and make some friends. You have a lot of options as to where to go.

One place you can search for your true love is online. Many dating sites have appeared on the Internet and bring people together that are also looking for the same thing. Bars, dance clubs and parties are some places that people go to meet. Speed dating events and commercial matchmakers can also help you in your quest.

It's too bad that there isn't someplace to go and someone could just tell you who would be your soul mate. But you are alone in your search, which might be what keeps it interesting. You continue the chase because of the excitement it creates. Here are some tips to find your true love.

Keeping it real

You must look inside and identify what you are looking for and what you want from a perfect partner. These have to be qualities that you want not things that your friends or relatives think would be good for you. If you don't list the things that you really want you won't find the person that is best for you.

Keep your standards high

After you have established what you are looking for in your mate, focus on these qualities. Don't compromise characteristics that are important so set your standards high. For example, if you are turned off by a guy that drinks too much and smokes, don't date someone who does and hope that it works out. You deserve the best so don't settle for less.

Giving up isn't an option

Giving up too soon means that you didn't play the game all the way and you won't find your true love. Don't let failed relationships in the past get you down. Pull yourself back up and believe that somehow soon your true love will be found. In the meantime, get fulfillment in your life and be happy with yourself so that when you find that special person you are ready and able to make him happy too.




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2012年10月3日 星期三

The Search For True Love - How to Find Mr Right


How do you search for true love? Are you looking in the right places? How will you recognize Mr Right when you find him? Are you feeling downhearted? Don't worry, you're not alone. Your Mr Right is out there wondering how on earth to find YOU! What you need is a plan to help you in your search for true love.

Remember, love could be absolutely anywhere. Make sure you're prepared to bump into Mr Right in the grocery store or at the laundromat, both of which are places where single guys are likely to be found. NEVER run your errands in dirty old track pants! Your search for true love could take you by surprise when you least expect it.

Have a clear idea of the kind of guy you're looking for and don't compromise on the important points. You should be prepared to compromise on shallow things like looks or what kind of car he drives as these are relatively unimportant in the long run. So long as you feel an attraction toward him, you're on the right path. He doesn't have to look like an underwear model, however nice that would be.

Think about the kind of personality you find attractive. Do you go for intelligence over a sense of fun? Maybe you prefer a sporty guy and don't care if he's not so bright. Now think about where these kind of guys are likely to hang out.

Also, be honest about your materialistic side. If you really cannot contemplate a relationship with a guy who can never pay the bills then perhaps you should avoid budding artists and musicians. Sure, he might strike it rich one day, but you need to love him for the penniless artist that he is right now. If money is truly unimportant to you, maybe you should beware of going for a high flying executive guy, because money is likely to be his main focus in life.

Make sure you and your potential Mr Right are a match in several ways. One common point of interest generally isn't enough to sustain true love in the long run.

By now you'll have a better idea of the kind of person you'd like your Mr Right to be. Focus your search for true love on these kind of guys. If you're not having much luck out there in the real world then consider switching your search to the internet.

Online dating is a fact of life these days. Everybody has tried it and plenty of people have hooked up with their long term loves through dating websites. If you're going to head this way, be honest on your profile. You can state exactly the kind of guy you're looking for to avoid wasting time with guys who just aren't your type. People expect a direct approach on dating websites. Be careful though and always meet in daylight hours in public places the first few times you meet a guy.

Speed dating is another fun way to meet guys. This is another time when it's a great idea to have your Mr Right Checklist ready - you only have a minute or so to see if he's a match so bullet point your requirements to maximize your chances of finding true love here. Take a friend with you for support but avoid going in a gang of girls, the guys might think you're just messing around rather than taking part in a genuine search for true love.

If you've searched and searched and still have not found true love, don't despair. Maybe you're trying too hard. Never give up on your search for true love! Your Mr Right is out there and your paths will cross when the time is right for both of you. Maybe you've already met him and just haven't realized it. Mr Right could appear at any time to sweep you off your feet so carry on, live your life, enjoy looking and your search for true love will end in happiness before you know it.




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This article is contributed by Tina Jones. Tina is part of the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women who want to understand male psychology, how to attract men, and find true love. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.




2012年9月28日 星期五

What Makes Men Fall in Love? The Right and the Wrong of Love


Are you out on a date with a new man every week, but they never stick around long enough to fall in love with you? Do you think you've got it all happening and why men don't call you for a second date is a complete mystery to you? Are you hot, confident, ambitious and just all out fabulous and you blame the men in your life for not truly appreciating all that you have to offer? Before you start playing the blame game, maybe you need to take a good, hard look at yourself to see what message you're really sending out when you go on a date.

If you're going out thinking you're the best thing out there, you might be intimidating men a bit. Confidence is great, but cockiness isn't. Tone down your self-aggrandizement and be a bit more real. If your dates are filled with flattering yourself and trying to convince the guy that you're great, you're shooting yourself in the foot. Be great and let him see for himself just how wonderful you are.

The next date you go on, think only of showing him a good time. What do you do when you're out with your girlfriends? You laugh, kid each other, sing, dance, have fun and just enjoy each other's company. So do this with him. Don't try to prove yourself, just be yourself. He won't feel the pressure to have to like you or to have to turn the date into a relationship. But the emotions will come in a more natural and true way.

Subsequent dates should follow the same pattern of carefree fun without any doom and gloom of your expectations. If you start to push him to love you, to be with you and to pay attention to you, he may retaliate by doing the exact opposite. Just have fun and let him see how great it is being with you. The better he feels every time he's with you, the more he'll want to spend his time with you and this will eventually translate into a great and long lasting relationship.




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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.




2012年9月25日 星期二

Falling In Love For All The Right Reason How To Find Your Soul Mate


Are you sick of being alone? Even worse, are you sick of dating people that are not right for you? Falling in love for all the right reason, how to find your soul mate is an article that is going to focus on love and the lost art of truly finding it today.

Falling in love for all the right reason, How to find your soul mate is not as hard of a task as we like to make it out to be. We can all fall in love and we can all find our soul mates. The problem is we don't know where to look or what to expect.

Searching for a mate is a hard thing to do, especially in today's society. Although, with online dating, phone dating, and all the traditional meeting spots, it may seem easier than it really is. Online dating is very tricky and you may have to wade through a lot of undesirable candidates before you find someone that is remotely worth your time. Phone dating is more of the same, and the traditional meeting spots are full of sex hungry people.

The first thing that you have to do in order to achieve "falling in love for all the right reason, how to find your soul mate" is stop looking in the wrong places. This would be a lot easier if you knew what the wrong places are. There is very little chance you are going to find your soul mate at a bar, night club, or any other place that involves drinking or drugs.

Start looking in obscure places like the supermarket, church, everyday places like the post office, work, school, and any other place that does not appear to be a hook up spot. You will be amazed at what you can find.

Falling in love for all the right reason, how to find your soul mate is our focus and our goal. There is so much that can be written on this subject and there is a lot of great advice out there. The main thing is you have to open your eyes and ear and start realizing the advice and using it.




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2012年9月10日 星期一

When Is The Right Time To Start A Dating Relationship?


People often wonder and ask when the right time to enter into a dating relationship is. Are you one of them or are you already in a relationship?

Is there a particular age at which you are regarded qualified to date? Are there things to consider before asking that girl of your dreams out or is this the right time to say yes to that hunk you so much adore?

In order to answer these questions, I would like to make an analogy with obtaining a driver's licence. My question would be, when is it right to start taking driving lessons? There is a time and season for everything on earth. Everything has a purpose and when the purpose of a thing is unknown abuse is inevitable.Driving tests: oral, theory, hazard perception and practical are put in place to prepare the individual for safe driving. A license is issued after passing the tests to certify that the holder has obtained the necessary standard to drive safely on the highway. This is put in place to prevent / reduce accidents and death on our roads.

To prepare for these tests, the prospective driver enrols in a driving school and takes lessons until he / she is confident and ready to take the tests. Until these tests are passed, you do not obtain a full driver's license. Some may take lessons from parents, friends or relatives while others uses software packages to gain the required knowledge and skills. whatever the case may be, lessons are being learnt and skills are acquired.

In like manner, you should date when you are seriously considering obtaining a marriage license. In order words you date when considering entering into a serious relationship which you hope would lead to the altar. Just like being behind the wheels of a car, you are in the driving seat of the other party's emotions, life and future when in a relationship. The way the affairs of any dating relationship are carried out impacts on both parties.

Many are left scarred as a result of an abusive relationships which goes on to affect future relationships and in some cases their marriage. Though some people deliberately and consciously decide to be become single parents, others get pregnant as a result of their naivety and sincere foolishness. Many people's lives, dreams and aspirations are ruined just because they were in a relationship they were not mature or wise enough to handle.

There may not be a particular age that categorically specifies when it is right to date, the criteria below should be met. When the leaves starts to fall you know that autumn is at hand.

Above the legal age

The law of the land states the age when one is considered to be an adult.

Have parental consent

You need the consent of your parents if you are under their roof. You may be an adult but their support, advice and counsel would help along the way, that's if they know any better.

Be mature

You should be physically and emotionally mature to handle a relationship. Though age may be a factor in determining maturity, it doesn't always apply. Do you have the necessary relational skills to go into a relationship? How much of the temperaments and characteristics of the opposite sex do you know? Do you have the right motives for entering into the relationship, or is it for selfish reasons? Is this relationship a rebound or emotional resting place while you recover from a heart break? Are you in the relationship because of peer pressures or is a hit and run scenario?

Ready to take responsibility

You should be ready to commit to a serious relationship that would eventually lead to marriage. It is not always possible to know for sure that your date is the right one, but there must be a strong indication that he or she is a potential spouse.

Dating without the intention to having a serious relationship is cheap recipe for emotional heart break and disaster. If you do not have the intention of getting married within a considerable time frame, why should you keep a person waiting for 5, 6, 7, 10 years? In such situations breaking up after such a long time would be emotionally disaster especially for the woman whose biologically clock may be past midnight.

Every relationship should be clearly defined and understood by the parties involved. No one should be left in the dark to build castles in the sky. If you do not intend to commit to a relationship for genuine reasons e.g. studies, career etc it would be wise and mature to make it very clear so you do not lead anyone on.

It may sound unusual, but I think couples intending to get married should be asked to attend marriage counselling classes to help prepare them for marriage life. The statistics and rate of divorces even amongst Christians is ever increasing. Love should be the motivation for a true relationship but there are other skills and knowledge to acquire that would help along the way. Marriage it till death, unlike a driver's license that can be revoked divorce is an exception and not the rule

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2012年9月8日 星期六

Rules of Dating - Making Sure It Goes Right


Are you're entering the dating scene again and worried about the rules of dating? Are there certain rules of dating that should not be ignored? How do you know what the rules of dating are?

There rules that govern just about every aspect of our lives. There are rules of the road, rules on the water, rules that must be followed at work, but some of the most important rules are the rules of dating. Unfortunately, these can also be among the most confusing set of rules.

In addition, the rules of dating always seem to be changing. Certainly the way that people date now is not the same as it was in the early 1900's. Also, the rules of dating will change depending on the particular person you are dating, so it can be very confusing right from the get go. However, there are a few basic rules that have stood the test of time and apply no matter who you are going out with.

Don't Talk Too Much About the Past

Everyone has a past. However, you just don't want to go into too much detail here. This is one of the main rules of dating and should always be followed. Tell your partner just enough so they know you, but too much information will lead to jealousy and competition.

Don't Be Too Enthusiastic

You may be head over heels in love with the person you are seeing even after only a few dates, but don't seem too excited. If you forget to follow this rule, you run the risk of smothering your significant other when they need time to breathe. Don't constantly call or ask for a date every night of the week. Instead, follow the three to one rule where you should not initiate contact each time. Instead, let her be the initiator after you have asked her out three straight times.

Be Complimentary

Every girl loves to hear how nice she looks. This is one of the more important rules of dating as it will make her feel very special and she'll know just how much you care about her. There so many rules and games that go on with today's dating scene that often times a simple compliment will be all it takes to win your girls heart each and every time.

Keep the Faith

It is easy to get down when the dates just don't seem to be going your way. Not every date is going to be a winner and not every girlfriend is going to be a keeper. But be sure to learn from each relationship and get ready to face the next one knowing that eventually you are going to find the one you will spend the rest of your life with.

Keep it Simple, Stupid

Don't rush dating. Be sure to take it slow and simple. It is not a sprint to try and get to the aisle. Instead, take your time in a relationship and get to know each other and become friends as well as lovers. Don't try to have a specific timeline to follow. If the relationship is right, everything will happen at the right pace and in its own time.




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2012年8月21日 星期二

Dating Obsession - How to Get the Right Prospective on Dating


Do you feel bad every time you're alone on the weekend and everyone else is, well, dating? Do you feel ugly when you attend a party or an event dateless? If so, it could be that you're suffering from dating obsession.

Dating obsession puts pressure on yourself when you're with a guy. You have to understand that dating or finding true love is not a race. Falling in love isn't something you can force yourself or another person to feel. It has to happen naturally, and the sooner you accept this, the sooner you'll be cured of your dating obsession and on your way to having a more fulfilling dating life.

To help you get started, here are a couple of tips to keep in mind the next time you go out on a date.

Tip #1: Mutual enjoyment makes the best date.

Dating obsession makes a woman overly anxious to please her date to the point of neglecting her own enjoyment. Unfortunately, this way of thinking can only backfire. If you try too hard, you'll either end up spoiling your date in a bad way...or he could get turned off.

The best dates happen when both parties are genuinely able to please each other. It's only natural that you want your date to feel good, but do allow the guy to exert some effort, too. Every woman deserves to be wooed on the first date, after all.

Tip #2: It's okay to be alone.

Think of it this way. Your problem with dating obsession could be the very reason why you're unable to meet "The One". Because you're so concerned about not looking desperately single and spinster-like on a Saturday night, you make sure you have a guy with you when you're out on a Saturday night. It doesn't matter if you don't like him much. What matters is that you're not alone.

But what if there happened to be a gorgeous guy who saw you across the room and was instantly attracted? Then he sees you're someone else and he backs down. That golden opportunity was lost, and it's all because you want to project the right image.

So next time the girls invite you out to go clubbing, give yourself a chance to enjoy being single...and completely free to mingle.

Tip #3: Don't look too hard.

Dating obsession makes you slavishly search for "ideal" places to meet eligible guys. But the truth is, the place doesn't matter. An attractive woman will always attract guys no matter where she is. So what you should really work on is to make yourself more attractive, which brings us to our most important tip.

Tip #4: Love yourself.

Don't you know that self-confidence is better than any cosmetic product in making you feel beautiful? Dating obsession makes you eternally worry about what's lacking with you. For a change, why don't you focus on what makes you so special. When you feel good about yourself, this will automatically alter how other people see you...and that include the guys you want to attract, too.




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