At seminars and conferences where I speak, when people hear I am an Online Dating Coach and Dating Expert, during the breaks, people sidle up to me and ask me, "Can I REALLY find love online?"
What is my answer?
My answer is an emphatic, "YES! Yes, you really can find love online using Online Dating and Internet Personals websites and even some of those fun Social Networking sites like Facebook."
And then naturally their next question is, "Really? How? How do I find love online?"
That, dear one, is a longer answer.
Before you even actually POST YOUR ONLINE DATING PROFILE, you need to do some prep work.
Now, let's take a look in the mirror.
You DO have a full length mirror in your apartment, right? OK, good. So, take a look at yourself. How do you look? Do you look Your Best?
Or does your image need some work? You may indeed need to do some major work like lose over 50 pounds.
Or you may feel you would look better with longer hair. But those changes take time, months in fact.
The point is to jot those down as things you want to work on and improve in yourself, but you need to consider how can I change my image in the next 3 weeks to look my best because you are going to post your profile within the next 7-21 days.
As you improve yourself and your image, you are welcome to update your profile, and I certainly DO recommend you update your profile about once every 5-7 weeks. However, we are talking about NOW and the short term, because the point is to start getting MORE DATES NOW. Not in 7 months or 2 years. NOW. Soon. Short Term. You are NOW moving into Action for your Goal of a fulfilling and committed Long Term Relationship.
You're getting started, and that's great!
Happy Dating!
Combining her audacious humor with a compassionate approach, Online Dating Coach and Dating Expert, April Braswell provides services and products for singles looking to create a great love relationship or simply get more dates!
To apply to become a Coaching client, you can reach April at: AprilJBraswell@aol.com
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