Date For Keeps - Fall in Love and Find Love in Return

Are you getting frustrated with superficial dating, and want to date for keeps instead? Why can't you seem to find someone who will get serious with you? Is there some secret to getting a guy to fall in love? Here are some ways to date for keeps that you might not have thought of.

The first tip is that you can only do so much when it comes to falling in love. You can't make a man feel or do something that he really doesn't want to do. Not if you want an honest, open, mutual partnership, that is.

Being out of control of something that personally means so much can make anyone anxious. But many people react to this anxiety by trying to gain more and more control. This can backfire, because you might be trying to rush things when you should be doing the opposite.

Instead of pushing and pressuring, make yourself take the opposite approach. If you want to date for keeps, you need to start by just having fun. You should create a playful, enjoyable mood when you are with the guy that you're interested in.

When you are dating, keep things mellow. Men can be completely disarmed by women who really keep things light, and are in no hurry to put labels on a relationship. Instead of trying to reach that "girlfriend status" milestone, just relax about your attitude.

Let go of any notion of controlling the relationship. In fact, the more you like and respect a man, the less you should try to be in charge of his thoughts and feelings. This is very tough, because you might want things so badly that it is hard not to keep a tight grip. But you can only control so much.

You do have control over your own actions. So make sure that you are behaving in a way that you will be proud of no matter what happens. Be the woman you want to be, keep things real and honest, and be straight about what you want. If you and he want separate things, then walk away. If you want to date for keeps, you need to find someone who wants the same things that you do.

Want to learn more? Go to: 77 Secrets of Love and learn how to make him fall in love with you hopelessly.

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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.