2012年10月6日 星期六

Make Men Love You - The Tricks to Getting to His Heart


Do you have what it takes to make men love you? Do you feel like the love parade is just passing you by and you don't know how to get on board? Are you looking for the best way to get to a man's heart? It can get frustrating out there, but there are ways to win a man over. Try out these tricks and watch what happens.

Women tend to get easily confused by the emotions they feel when they enter a sexual relationship with a man. When they have strong emotions for the man they're with, they associate every sexual encounter with true and genuine emotions on his part. Unfortunately, from the man's perspective, sex is usually just sex.

If this sounds familiar, cut the sex out for those first few dates. If your man is at all interested in a real relationship, he'll appreciate the fact that you're holding off. Not only will this tell him you value yourself enough to assure you've found the right man, but that he needs to show his own value to you in order to win you over. Don't underestimate how powerful that can be.

The first dates should really concentrate on the friendship aspect of your relationship. Communication needs to be fun and easy, so encourage him to talk about himself and give him insight into who you are as well. Tell him about some of your quirky qualities, or better yet, show him by inviting him to join you on fun and wild activities. It's important to make each date a great opportunity for him to see a different side of you. You don't want to fall into the habit of doing the same old, same old on each date.

And finally, remember not to rush the relationship. Though you may feel you've had enough of dating and you just want to push the relationship down the path to something more serious and committed doesn't mean he's thinking along the same lines as you are. Watch his reaction if you mention wanting to see him more. Is he flattered? Does he readily agree and makes more time for you? Or does he frown, turn away or mutter some vague reason why he can't offer you more time. The moment you sense he's reluctant to give more, consider that you may be rushing it too much.

Take a step back and let him set the pace. As frustrating as it may be to sit back and do nothing, forcing the issue too much can very well lead to him turn around and walk out of your life.

Focus on having fun dates that leave him wanting more and keep the pressure off. Men enjoy a pursuit, so if you play it cool, he'll be more eager to take that step forward. He'll fall in love with you and he may just be the one pressuring you for a commitment




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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.




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