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2012年12月11日 星期二

Make Him Fall in Love - Win His Heart and Keep it Always


Are you afraid you might not be able to make a guy fall in love with you? Have you been having so much fun going on meaningless dates that you don't know if you can really hunker down and work on a real relationship? Does it seem like an impossible task and you don't know where to begin? Here's where you can start; read this article.

Having easy and fun dates that revolve around sex, you're probably already aware of the fact that love rarely follows. For the most part it's because we look for different qualities when we just want fun and when we decide to look for a life partner. Some of the flirty playboy party animals we gravitate towards suddenly become unappealing.

When going out in search of a man who will have the capacity to give you his heart, you'll have to consider a different approach. Having sex out on the frontline as your way of attracting men won't really work in this context. You want to be able to attract him intellectually and emotionally as well as physically.

Don't make it apparent that you're out on the prowl. Be casual in your approach to men, keeping it friendly rather than hungry. This can allow for a laid back relationship to grow as you get to know each other without the pressures of 'where's this going?' He'll be able to simply enjoy his time with you if you can show him the fun girl that you are.

This doesn't mean you always have to be 'on' and all your dates have to revolve around some wild and unexpected activity. Follow your heart, be yourself and be in tune to who he is and what he enjoys. There's no point planning an outrageous date if he enjoys spending quiet evenings with you.

Be conscious of what you say and do. Many women embark on a new relationship oblivious to how they make their man feel. They barely listen to him, criticize trivial things and center every date around their own ideal romance. This isn't a good way to build a solid relationship you can both be happy in.

Remember to make him feel good just being with you and he'll fall in love with you.




To learn more, click Fall in Love and learn Love Mistakes that 99% of women make without knowing.

This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.




2012年12月6日 星期四

Earn His Love - Make a Beeline For His Heart


Have you been playing nice-nice in the hopes of earning his love? Do you do everything a good girl is supposed to do to get the love of a man, yet you always end up alone? Do you think it's time you find out what really makes men fall in love with a woman? There are plenty of things that can make a man turn away from a woman. It's important to know what you should avoid and what you should do to entice him into your arms.
Avoid Trying Too Hard

Many women go out there with only one thing in mind. I must find a man I'll spend the rest of my life with. While this may truly be what you intend to ultimately accomplish, going out there with this intention written plainly on your face is going to scare away a whole lot of men.

Even the guy who is hoping to meet a woman for life may find it hard to relax when faced with such expectations.

Instead of trying so hard to absolutely land him, try to simply have fun. Smile, laugh, look his way and flirt in a casual manner to catch his eye.

When out on dates, don't just be thinking about where the relationship is going and if this is going to turn into something serious. Take it one date at a time. These dates should be an exciting time in both your lives. You're learning a bunch of stuff about each other. And every new thing you learn will either enforce the feelings you have for him or let you know that he's not really the one for you.

And while you're not trying too hard, this means that you'll be more apt to allow him to set the pace. Don't jump ahead of him and try to lead him along to the path of commitment that you're dreaming of. Let him take his time if he needs it.
So long as the dates are fun and he's learning so much about you, he'll continue to become more and more interested. Be a friend and the one he wants to confide in when he needs to talk.

Earning his love is really a matter of being the one person he most enjoys being with and the person he wants to spend most of his time with.




To learn more, click Fall in Love and learn Love Mistakes that 99% of women make without knowing.

This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.




2012年12月1日 星期六

The Secret Key to Open a Man's Heart and Make Him Fall in Love


If someone gave you a key that could open any man's heart and make him fall in love, would you use it? If you could make a magic wish to have the man of your choice fall head over heels in love with you, would you? If you had the power to control men's hearts and minds, would you use it to find love? Although the idea of making a man fall in love is nice, most of us would really prefer to find a love that is real and honest and natural. Although these tips can't make a man fall in love with you, but they can make it easier to find the love you're waiting for.

A basic understanding of male psychology can go a long way on the dating scene. In order to make a man fall in love, you have to know how he thinks about love. It is precisely a lack of this kind of understanding that makes dating so difficult for many women. The efforts we put into attracting a man often fail because we're exerting ourselves in all the wrong ways.

Falling in love used to be a rather simple affair. All we had to do was look pretty and act nice, men would fall in love with us, we would get married, have kids, and live a long and happy life. Our social roles were clearly defined by our sex. Men were the hunters, the providers. Women were the care-givers, the home-makers.

Today, however, gender roles have changed significantly. Men are no longer the sole breadwinners in the world. Women are able to share the same ambitions as men. Women compete for the same jobs that men do. Likewise, it is also now acceptable for women to be openly sexual, and it's just as acceptable for women to instigate the amorous pursuit of a relationship.

Love used to be simple because the rules of love were clearly defined. Now those old rules no longer exist. It's actually just as safe to say that there are no longer any rules to the game of love. So what's a girl supposed to do?

The simple answer is, when it comes to finding love, do whatever feels natural. The most important thing you can do when dating is remain true to yourself. Because there are no longer rules regarding love, there's no longer any such thing as a perfect man. Instead, you need to find the perfect man for you. You need to find a man who compliments you in every imaginable way. And if you pretend to be someone you're not, chances are you're going to end up with a man who won't make you happy.

Don't forego your own interests or ambitions on account of a man. Don't change your opinions or your beliefs in order to make yourself more appealing to a man. Men actually want the same thing in a relationship you do. They want a partner who is honest, uncompromising, and pure. They want to fall in love with their perfect counterpart. As long as you act naturally, once you do find your perfect man, your natural beauty and charm will make him fall in love with you.




To learn more, click Fall in Love and learn Love Mistakes that 99% of women make without knowing.

This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.




2012年11月27日 星期二

Make a Guy Fall in Love - Charm His Heart


Is it impossible to make a guy fall in love with you? Have you been on disastrous dates that left you weeping and feeling you'll never find the right guy for you? Do you sometimes want to give up on love? While you should never really give up on the possibility of finding your true love and conquering him, there might be some value to letting a portion of that dream fall by the wayside.

Sound counter productive?

Surely you've heard it before. "I wasn't even looking... and there he was."

Sometimes when we want him so badly, when getting into a relationship is so important and when time seems to be running out we can get a little desperate. As hard as you may try to hide that desperation, it almost always comes through and is almost always repelled by a guy.

When you go out with a nice guy you think has potential, don't have your mental agenda out in the open. As a matter of fact, simply throw that mental agenda away and don't even think about it. If you can have a good time with this guy, get into an interesting conversation and just learn a bit about him without the gears in your head working to figure out how to make him your boyfriend or husband, you'll be more relaxed and you'll enjoy yourself more.

Right there you've already won a point because you're having more fun. But you're also allowing him to relax and have fun. He's just a guy you're getting to know and you're just a girl he's having a good time with. Next date? Continue being fun, vibrant and free. Also be yourself. Don't fake your way through this stage, it'll just turn out to be a waste of time in the end and you'll regret it.

Also, without that agenda in your head you might be more apt to continue with the activities and social life you've always had. Most women forget the importance of this part and devote all their free time to him. Don't. These activities will bring a vitality to your life which you'll in turn bring along on the next date, which will make you a more interesting person and will intrigue him all the more.

And, most importantly, it will cause you to be less available to him. Your gut might tell you that this is a bad thing. Well it can be if you take it too far and truly never, ever see the guy. But if you're only free to see him once during the week, you're creating a huge need for him to see you.

Fun dates, the challenge to pursue you and the knowledge that you're a vibrant and independent woman will all charge him up and have him falling in love with you before you've even had to chance to wish him to.




To learn more, click Fall in Love and learn Love Mistakes that 99% of women make without knowing.

This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.




2012年11月25日 星期日

Sure-Fire Tips on How to Make Him Fall in Love - The Way to Capture His Heart


Have you ever wondered what the secret is to making great men fall in love? Are you intrigued at how some women make men fall in love with them so easily? Do you want to make him fall in love with you? If you said yes, then smile and get ready because you can surely make him fall in love him with you by following these easy tips.

Much of the old dating rules do not apply to this modern age. There has been more equality between men and women in the dating scene. Women nowadays don't always have to wait around for someone to ask them out because they can do the asking themselves. Men, in effect, find themselves being subtly pursued by women. If you want to make him fall in love, you have to understand how male psychology works.

Men are visual creatures and they first see your looks. Capture his attention by looking your best and, at the same time, giving him the confidence to ask you out. Arrest his eyes and make him gaze at you by wearing flattering but simple clothes. Make it seem like you are effortlessly beautiful.

Know the art of flirting in conversations and body language. Keep him into you the whole night by making him feel at ease with you. Get him more interested by subtle glances, smiles and soft touches. This will make him feel manlier and will make you look for feminine. Don't tell him just about everything. Know which topics to talk about and leave a room for mystery.

After that date, take it easy. Don't assume that he'll fall in love with you easily. Sometimes, men confuse love for desire. Remember that it takes more time for men to realize they are in love than women. Just keep up with his pace and start talking to him about how you feel. That is perfectly fine as long as you don't scare him with the thought that you are dead serious with him with the little time you got to know him. It might scare him.

Build that laid-back atmosphere and make it conducive for him to be more open to you about his feelings. Let him do the talking instead of you squeezing answers from him. Exerting pressure on him may cause him to move away instead of being drawn to you.

Hopefully these tips would help you capture his heart. Follow these steps correctly and you'll make him fall in love with you in no time.




To learn more, click Fall in Love and learn Love Mistakes that 99% of women make without knowing.

This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.




2012年11月22日 星期四

Make Him Love You - A Potion to His Heart


Do you want him to fall in love with you, and fall hard? Have you ever hoped for a magical potion to make him love you with all his heart? Are your dates fun and exciting and you want to spend even more time with him? If you've come to the realization that this is the man you want in your life and you want to make him come to that same realization, read the following tips.

When a relationship starts with great dates that are fun it means you talk for hours, you enjoy common activities and you leave each other eager to see one another again. All this makes for a great way to explore one another and figure out if you both are what the other wants and needs. Go dancing together, or to the movies, or a great dinner. Then try to make a few special moments where you can be completely alone together.

No matter how much fun you have when you're together, be sure to keep some time to yourself.

Go out with your girlfriends, visit your family or take part in the activities you enjoy. As you take this time for you, you are also giving him some breathing space, whether he may need it or not. This is a win/win strategy. If he is feeling a little suffocated by your constant presence, it will be a breath of fresh air. If he longs to be with you, these brief moments of absence will make him want to be with you all the more.

As tempting as it may be, don't throw sex into this equation too quickly. For one thing, sex can sometimes skew your judgment. All of a sudden you're seeing love and bonding and all these great things where, in actuality, there is only a hot physical attraction that will most likely die out in a matter of months.

Also, keeping sex out of those first few dates is a great way of differentiating the players who want easy sex from the guys who are really in it for the long haul. Men who want easy sex are generally not very patient when it comes to getting their satisfaction. The guy who is still there at the six or seventh (more if you can) date has a greater chance of being a man worthy of your time.

When that time finally comes and you do become intimate, the build up of anticipation can be powerful. With the emotional bond already going strong, and the physical lure growing more intense with every date, you are sure to win his love.




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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.




2012年11月21日 星期三

Make a Guy Fall in Love - The Basics of Winning a Man's Heart


Are you daydreaming about what it could be like to make a guy fall in love with you? Do you ever feel like your guy runs hot and cold? Would you like to know how to give your guy a little push if he is on the edge? Love might feel complicated sometimes, but it doesn't always have to be. Read on to find out how you can make a guy fall in love with you.

To make a guy fall in love with you, you have to understand a little bit about how his mind works. Sometimes women get discouraged and think that men really can't fall in love because all they worry about it sex. Actually, this is not true. Most men want to fall in love as much as women. It is simply that it takes them longer to get to that same point that women tend to get at much more quickly.

With that in mind, it is important to understand that just because you are in love with him doesn't mean that he is already going to be in love with you. The trick is to hang in there and not expect him to move at the same pace as you. This is a surefire way to disaster because he will feel as though you are pushing him and rushing him into feeling something that he is not ready for.

One little trick that you can try to try and hurry things along is to make him feel as though you have been together much longer than you actually have been. So how can you do this? By going on lots of little dates in different locations. If you go to the movies, for instance, begin the date with a quick bite of dinner at a cafe, see the movie, and then go for a walk. The entire date might only be 3 hours but it he will have 3 different locations to link it two, thus psychologically making him feel as though he has made several different memories.

You must also remember to always keep building your friendship whenever you are with him. Be sure to ask him about his day, be supportive of him when he needs someone to talk to, and to encourage him in things that he might be attempting to do. Guys need good friends, too, and by proving to him that you can be a romantic partner AND a friend he will think you are one in a million. In essence, you can make a guy fall in love with you by letting him know that he can depend on you.




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This article is contributed by Tina Jones. Tina is part of the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women who want to understand male psychology, how to attract men, and find true love. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.




2012年11月16日 星期五

Win His Heart - How to Make Your Guy Fall in Love


Are you dying to know how to win your guy's heart? Do you want to know how to make him fall in love with you? Are you looking to make a guy friend into your boyfriend but aren't sure how to make that transition? It's not so hard to get a guy to fall in love with you. Let's look at some easy ways to win his heart.

So you already know this guy, he's a friend and you get on like a house on fire. The thing is, recently you've found yourself seeing him as more than a friend but he doesn't seem to have noticed your change of heart. We've all been in this situation, it's so easy to fall in love with a guy friend and so natural! You already like him, you already have lots of things in common, but how on earth do you take it from guy friend to something more intimate? It's not so hard to win his heart and you can do it without risking your friendship.

Firstly evaluate your friendship. Does he see you as the kind of good friend that you see him as? If he values your friendship then you won't lose that by revealing your feelings, even if he doesn't feel the same way.

You have a potentially strong romantic relationship here thanks to your shared common ground so take it slow. You are asking him to see you in a new way and it could take him a while to get used to the idea. Help him along a little here by dressing a little sexier around him and flirting a little, see how he reacts.

If he takes the bait and goes out on a date with you, do not sleep with him on the date. That would be way too much too soon. He might wake up the next day and feel really weird about having slept with his best girl friend. He still needs time to see you as an attractive woman rather than a buddy, a few dates at least will be needed before getting intimate.

A few dates down the line and he'll be more comfortable with the idea of you as his romantic partner. As you already have your friendship, with a deep respect for each and shared experiences that you can build on, you're already way ahead of most new couples. Having held off on sex for the first few dates will really have helped cement the relationship. When you do get intimate you can be sure that he cares deeply for you and that you will be the girl to finally win his heart forever.




Imagine what if you could make any man adore you, chase you, love you, and commit to you? Click Unforgettable Woman Advice and learn 77 Secrets that ninety percent of women have never heard. You have got to see this!

This article is contributed by Tina Jones. Tina is part of the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women who want to understand male psychology, how to attract men, and find true love. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.




2012年11月10日 星期六

How to Earn His Love - Capture His Heart and His Mind


Are there tips a woman should know that can help her earn a man's love? Would you like to find out some secrets to help you capture his heart and his mind? Do you think you could make your guy fall for you if you had a little extra help? Here's some inside information to give you that additional edge to earn his love.

Think of this - when do you desire something to the point where you cannot get it out of your mind? Usually this happens when you can't or haven't had the object of your desire for a while; for example, a new pair of jeans when you can't afford them or a piece of chocolate cake when you are on a diet. When something is taken away from you, your eagerness to have it increases.

Apply this explanation to earning your man's love. Build his desire for you by spending some time apart. Make yourself unavailable by filling some of your time doing things with others and by participating in your own activities. He will miss you and will be anticipating when he will see you again. You'll constantly be in his thoughts simply by not being around.

Now, make your time together easy. Relax and be yourself. Let him feel comfortable enough to be himself with you also. When all pretenses are dropped, then the two of you can truly develop a deep connection.

And finally, plan your dates a little differently. Men's emotions develop gradually and are guided by their perception of your times together. Your man will think of you in terms of your dates by recalling places you have been and things you have done. Speed up his memories by filling one date with many little dates. Start off your night in one location and move on to two or three other places on the same date. He will get the feeling that you have been together longer because he remembers you in so many different places.

All in all, remember that your guy is just as nervous in a new relationship as you are. Be easy and enjoyable and help him to feel natural around you. Do lots of fun, different things together and keep him thinking about you even when you're not around. If you continue to fill his thoughts with happy times, you are definitely on your way to earning his love.




Imagine what if you could make any man adore you, chase you, love you, and commit to you? Click Unforgettable Woman Advice and learn 77 Secrets that ninety percent of women have never heard. You have got to see this!

This article is contributed by Tina Jones. Tina is part of the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women who want to understand male psychology, how to attract men, and find true love. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.




2012年11月5日 星期一

Lead Him Into Love - The Secret to His Heart


Are you afraid you might never get a guy to fall in love with you? Have you had a lot of fun on the dating scene, but it's time something more serious happened? Do the men you date seem completely disinterested in a truly loving relationship? Not every man is ready to jump into a real romance, but there are plenty of men out there who want the whole thing. Here's how to tell which guys you should spend your time with and how to get them into a relationship with you.

Back in the day, the rules to dating were a little more clear cut. Men made the moves, and women were demure, if not submissive. And sex was reserved for much later in the relationship.

Well women are now making the moves and we're far from demure. But our desire to have our sexuality out on constant display can sometimes come back to bite us. Overt sexuality is the best bait for catching the guy who'll most likely not have any interest in a true relationship. All he wants is a fun night tossing in bed with you.

To attract that guy who'll want more of a relationship, you need to show him that you have something more to offer. Start off on a platonic foot instead of letting your sexuality guide you. Get to know him. Talk to him. Listen. This is the best way to find out what he's all about and you want him to have a little glimpse at who you are as well.

You're probably worried that the cute guy you really like might not have the patience to get to know you and he'll want to have sex right away. You're probably afraid he won't want to spend any time with you if you don't give in. Yes, that is a great possibility. But you need to ask yourself if you want to continue wasting time with cute guys that only want a hot night of sex or you want the real thing that is going to last.

Spend your time on the guy who has something to say, who you admire and who you'd like to be with for the rest of your life. Though this isn't the time to bring up that fact. Never start a relationship with the declaration of where you want that relationship to go. This can be an immense strain on the guy who is just looking to get to know you through fun dates.

Many women think too much about the fun that they're having all while forgetting about the memory she might be leaving her date with. You want him to enjoy himself enough with you that he'll want to see you again and again. Don't turn your dates with him into a chore by trying too hard to guide him down a certain path.

Overall, you want him to simply feel great about being with you, even if you're not doing anything particularly special. It's the bond that grows between you two that will really have you getting closer. Admire him and show him that you respect the man he is. Also think of what you're bringing to the relationship and remember that he wants to admire you as well.

You're smart and vibrant and have plenty to offer, so let him see that. When he realizes how much you bring to his life and how great it is being with you all the time, he'll fall in love with you.




To learn more, click Fall in Love and learn Love Mistakes that 99% of women make without knowing.

This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.




2012年11月3日 星期六

Lure Him Into Love - Get Him to Open His Heart to You


Have you been lacking in luck on the dating front and you don't know how to get a guy to love you? Are you fun and easy, yet guys don't seem to have any interest in pursuing a relationship with you? Have you met tons of guys and many of them would have made a great life's partner, but they didn't see a future with you? To a certain extent that's normal. Not every man is going to fall for every woman. We all have our likes and dislikes, and we're all looking for that certain something in the person who'll become our life long mate. Here's how you can help your search for your perfect man and how to win his love.

Physical Attraction - How Much is Enough

It's funny how many women balk at the notion that physical appearances are important, yet they themselves will turn a guy down because he doesn't look the part. On both sides that physical attraction is important. However, it doesn't end there.

Just as you shouldn't simply rely on your looks to reel a guy in, you shouldn't base your love for him on how he looks. Just because he's as cute as all get out doesn't mean he's a great match for you.

Discovery

Go beyond the looks and spend time getting to really know one another. A great conversation that has you exploring the many sides of the man you've just met can be a good beginner. You'll find out if you're on the right track, and without necessarily discussing a future together, you'll see where he's heading. It's never a good idea to rush future plans into the mix. You'll have plenty of time for that once your relationship is on solid ground. Otherwise you can appear over eager and even desperate. Keep your future plans under wrap, possibly until he brings it up.

But don't think a few dates spent talking well into the wee hours of the morning are enough. Building an emotional bond takes more than that. It takes that sense of security and comfort that can only come over time. Let each date you have with him show him that you're fun and easy to be around. You want him to remember the time he spent with you and smile. This will leave him eager to see you again.

Emotional Attachment - Building that Solid Foundation

Many women simply hook onto how they feel when they're with the guy and they don't really stop to consider how he feels. If the conversation has been all about you and you think you had a great time because you impressed him and he seemed attentive, you might be mistaken. He may have left the date feeling dizzy with all you chatter and bored by it all.

Be aware of what you're doing and how it affects him. Admire him and show him that have you a great deal of respect for the man he shows you to be. If you do fall in love with him, don't try to change everything about him. Love and accept him as he is. He'll fall in love with you when he sees that he can be himself, have fun and just feel great being in your company.




To learn the fatal love mistakes you must avoid, click Love Advice. If you're ready to transform your love life this year, click 77 Love Secrets Now. You don't want to miss this!

Jennifer Keys is a professional writer who specializes in the field of dating and relationship. After making many mistakes in her love life, Jennifer has dedicated her time to help other women understand the dynamic between men and women. Please visit her website to learn more.




2012年11月2日 星期五

Make Him Fall in Love - Take His Hand to Your Heart


Is it frustrating trying to get a man to fall in love with you? Have you noticed the differences between the way men view love versus how women do? Have you been trying to figure men out, but they are just so darned confusing? Believe me, they don't deliberately want to confuse you. For the most part, they are often confused themselves. But there's a common thread among what men are looking for when they set out to find love. Read on to find out where that thread leads.

Love is filled with obstacles. Finding the right match can be complicated, connecting is sometimes hindered by long distances or you're simply not hanging out where the man of your dreams is.

First know what you're looking for. Many women build up a perfect hero, then try to make the men they meet fit into that mold. This is why so many women end up trying to change a man so much. Don't assume that just because he looks the part he'll actually turn out to be that impossibly romantic dream man you really want.

It can be heart wrenching to leave that cute guy behind, but if he's not what you really need in your life there's no point beating a dead horse. Be honest in your assessment of the men you meet. This can only be done by going on a number of dates with him and finding out who he really is. Take your time to discover him.

When you finally find that perfect match, don't suddenly turn the pressure up and try to get him to become more committed than he is at that point in the relationship. You still need time to grow together and make that solid bond with him.

Some women enter the dating arena with a detailed list of what they're looking for. On those first few dates they're interviewing him and mentally checking off one point after another. And this is what they base their future on. But getting to know him isn't a simple matter of questions and answers. It's in the time you spend with one another that is really going to give you the right answers.

Whether your dates are wild, romantic, adventurous or quiet, the key is to find that bond that will simply leave you feeling comfortable around each other. In this, you'll want to remember how he's feeling in the relationship. He needs your admiration. It may seem macho, but he really wants to be the man in the relationship. Dah, isn't a man what you want? Then don't nitpick and badger him about a bunch of silly little things until he feels like an insignificant little boy.

When you realize you love him, you have to also realize that you love him for who he is, not what you're hoping to mold him into. Praise the great things he does and be generous with your appreciation of him. No one's perfect, so let him be.

Having these great times with you, laughing and enjoying himself, and seeing that you're the woman who is truly going to love him for who he is, he'll open up his heart and come to fall in love with you.




To learn more, click Fall in Love and learn Love Mistakes that 99% of women make without knowing.

This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.




2012年10月27日 星期六

Making a Guy Fall in Love - The Best Way to His Heart


Is your love life looking more and more hopeless and you just have no idea how to make a guy fall in love with you? Do you wish you could learn the fine art of understand men and the male heart? Would finding your true love be easier if you knew the workings of that male heart? You're right about that. Read on and simplify your love life.

Women are far more emotional than men and when women embark on a sexual relationship with a man, they tend to think love is involved. Sadly, most men embark on a sexual relationship simply to have sex. Love isn't even on their radar.

So if you really want to win his love, start by looking at everything other than the sex that will go into this relationship. By doing this you're giving yourself a chance to really build something strong before allowing sex to come in and confuse it all.

Your dates with him can certainly be tinted with a touch of sexual innuendo, or perhaps even that elusive promise of what's to come. Building up this great and intoxicating anticipation is far more rewarding than simply jumping into bed with him at the first chance.

Place your efforts in creating a true and strong bond with him. You can do this simply by having fun dates that divulge a lot about both of you. Find activities that will have you both laughing and enjoying each other's company. Go on dates where you can just sit back and relax together. Are you guys comfortable just being together? Do you long to see him again soon because everything just feels so right when you're with him? Has he indicated he feels the same way for you?

Relationships are full of complexities and nuances and the more in depth your dates take you, the more you'll discover these complexities and nuances. Throughout all this, you must be yourself. There's no point in acting as if you enjoy something you don't, or you're someone you're not.

You don't have to enjoy everything he does and you certainly don't have to be perfect. Just be the best that you can be so he'll appreciate you. Then show him that you accept and appreciate him as he is as well. Men thrive on praise and want to know that they've impressed you.

To make a man fall in love with you, you just have to show him how lovable you are, how great you can make his life and how wonderful it is having you around.




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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.




2012年10月17日 星期三

Dating a Liar: Signs That He Will Just Break Your Heart


Is your instinct telling you that there is something wrong with the guy that you are dating? Do you want to make sure that you are not dating a liar who will take advantage of your feelings? Do you want to know how to determine if you are dating a liar or not?

When you are dating someone with whom you might have a romantic relationship with in the future, knowing the person well is very important. When you observe and feel that the guy you are dating has a hidden agenda then it's time for you to be make a move and find out what he is up to. Honesty in a relationship is essential; therefore you should not waste your time dating someone who is not being truthful.

If you are suspicious about a man's motive in taking you out, the following signs should be carefully observe to know if you are dating a liar.

Sign # 1: Body Language: When a guy confesses about his feelings for you, his body should show that he is telling the truth. When he can't seem to be comfortable or he can't look into your eyes while he is telling sweet words then you should turn on your red alert sign. When the guy is saying something but his body language is telling the opposite, it only means that you are dating a liar. You should not give that guy an opportunity to trap you in his web of lies or else you will be miserable.

Sign # 2: Evasiveness: Whenever you are with the guy that you have been dating for quite sometime already and you observe that he avoids questions that pertains to his personal life, you need to think twice. When he says so many good things about himself but starts to change topic or divert your attention to something else when you try to connect all things about him, you are dating a liar.

Sign # 3: Inconsistent Pattern of Stories: Another thing that you should watch out for if you are suspecting that you are dating a liar is the consistency in his stories or words. When he is telling different versions every time you ask about the same topic that he has shared with you before, then you should be careful. Slight altercations are acceptable since a person will not be able to remember every detail; however, a liar will always have different versions and can never stick to a single story.

Sign # 4: Full of Lame Alibis: A strong indication that you are dating a liar is when he never runs out of lame excuses. When you are in doubt of your date's honesty you should try to probe into his actions. If he starts giving lame excuses, then you better save yourself from him before it's too late. When a liar is already caught in his own lies, he will always try to escape from it even if it means giving foolish reasons or excuses to his actions.




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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.




2012年10月14日 星期日

Get the Man You Love - Stop Playing and Get to the Heart of Him


Do you want to get the man you love, but you have no clue how? Have you been dating for too long and you just want to settle down and get the man you love? Is the merry go round dating scene getting old and you want to quit it and finally get the man you love?

We can sometimes end up meeting tons of guys before we meet that one special man who really has everything we're looking for. So if you've been around a time or two and still can't get the man you love, here's what you should be looking into.

Dressing to Please

Many women tend to dress in a way that will attract a lot of attention. Then they turn around and complain that they don't find men they can love, only men who want a hot night in bed.

Go out there with a better and clearer vision of the woman you are. If you want to play the tramp, then, by all means, dress like a tramp. But if you're looking to meet a guy who is going to really take the time to get to know the woman you are, show him that you're more than just a hot body.

Be Interested as Well as Interesting

Women certainly have the reputation for chatting the hours away. We love to talk and we love to give details. And if this competitive world, we love to show how much we've accomplished in our lives.

This can all lead to crowding out his ability to get a word in and impress you a bit. Dating is a huge exchange of information about one another. If you're doing all the talking, not only are you telling him too much about yourself, but you're also depriving yourself of some important information or just pleasant chit chat with him.

The Future to Come

For a guy to fall in love with a girl, he wants to be able to see a great future with her. If after only a few months of dating you're already getting on his back for a series of minor offences, he might start to think you're a bit too demanding and want to back out of the relationship.

Romance, relationships and the path to a lifetime together should be fun, exciting and filled with that optimistic view of your future.

Love Yourself

How are you going to get that guy you love if you don't love yourself? Many women are looking for a man to fix their lives, but you should already have a handle on your life before you meet him.

This man should come in and enhance your life, not be your life. So discover yourself, find activities you enjoy, and find out where you really want to go in life. Then open up and be ready to allow that special guy to come in and share that life with you. With your own well balanced life in your hands, you'll have so much more to bring to this romantic relationship.




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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.




2012年10月6日 星期六

Make Men Love You - The Tricks to Getting to His Heart


Do you have what it takes to make men love you? Do you feel like the love parade is just passing you by and you don't know how to get on board? Are you looking for the best way to get to a man's heart? It can get frustrating out there, but there are ways to win a man over. Try out these tricks and watch what happens.

Women tend to get easily confused by the emotions they feel when they enter a sexual relationship with a man. When they have strong emotions for the man they're with, they associate every sexual encounter with true and genuine emotions on his part. Unfortunately, from the man's perspective, sex is usually just sex.

If this sounds familiar, cut the sex out for those first few dates. If your man is at all interested in a real relationship, he'll appreciate the fact that you're holding off. Not only will this tell him you value yourself enough to assure you've found the right man, but that he needs to show his own value to you in order to win you over. Don't underestimate how powerful that can be.

The first dates should really concentrate on the friendship aspect of your relationship. Communication needs to be fun and easy, so encourage him to talk about himself and give him insight into who you are as well. Tell him about some of your quirky qualities, or better yet, show him by inviting him to join you on fun and wild activities. It's important to make each date a great opportunity for him to see a different side of you. You don't want to fall into the habit of doing the same old, same old on each date.

And finally, remember not to rush the relationship. Though you may feel you've had enough of dating and you just want to push the relationship down the path to something more serious and committed doesn't mean he's thinking along the same lines as you are. Watch his reaction if you mention wanting to see him more. Is he flattered? Does he readily agree and makes more time for you? Or does he frown, turn away or mutter some vague reason why he can't offer you more time. The moment you sense he's reluctant to give more, consider that you may be rushing it too much.

Take a step back and let him set the pace. As frustrating as it may be to sit back and do nothing, forcing the issue too much can very well lead to him turn around and walk out of your life.

Focus on having fun dates that leave him wanting more and keep the pressure off. Men enjoy a pursuit, so if you play it cool, he'll be more eager to take that step forward. He'll fall in love with you and he may just be the one pressuring you for a commitment




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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.




2012年8月10日 星期五

Love, Dating and How to Deal With the Broken Heart


Everybody's heart will be broken at some time during his or her life. This truth was brought home to me recently when the long distance relationship I was involved in began to unravel as the reality of mutual commitments and shared responsibilities for children with ex partners eventually became evident. I am a fifty-year-old father of two beautiful and challenging teenagers. I have been happily single for these past 3 years. Earlier this year I decided it was time to open my heart to the possibility of a loving, conscious relationship. Within weeks I had found my partner or, more accurately, we had found each other. We began our long distance dating which involved a five-hour plane journey and settling into each other's rhythms and time zones.

I won't go into the details of the painful split; suffice to say that we have managed to remain close and supportive friends. So what growth and learning was I able to glean from my recent romance and a broken heart as a mature and, I hope, emotionally intelligent man.

Some time after the initial flight or fight response to the heartache, I was lucky enough to be able to step back and observe the process. I became aware how in the past my strategy for avoiding the misery of emotional pain had been to go on holiday, launch into a rebound relationship, get drunk or reach for the remote control. Anything rather than face the misery.

It has been my experience that in the quest for pleasure I had spent an enormous amount of time running from what was painful. In the place of this conditioning I had overlooked the transformative power of standing in what was coming up for me on my emotional horizon.

I decided to stand my ground and said to myself; "This time I'm not moving. If my heart is going to break, let it break completely. I am meeting the hurt just as it is, without the story of what I should or she should have done." What I discovered in that broken heart was my core which is just perfect the way it is. I found peace and bliss with nothing broken, nothing to fix and plenty of room to grow and learn.

How the process works

o Allow yourself to go right to the core, feeling the hurt, rejection or jealousy.

o Be thankful for the opportunity to feel the wound because it has triggered a catalytic process.

o The memories of all who have hurt you, humiliated and rejected you work their way to surface. You will start to relive those memories.

o Allow yourself to innocently feel all the despair with nothing excluded and allow your heart to be broken deeper than ever before, without any story of what should have happened or what he/she said etc.

o Stay with it no matter what; an amazing thing is about to happen.

We discover a treasure: the pain becomes a catalyst that sparks a transformation. The hurt is reshaped, remodeled and amazingly the pain is converted into joy and the suffering transformed into bliss.

I am reminded of the 13th-Century poet and great mystic Rumi's paradox:

"I saw Grief drinking a cup of sorrow and called out: 'It tastes sweet, does it not?'

'You've caught me,' Grief answered, 'and you've ruined my business. How can I sell sorrow when you know it's a blessing?"

Sorrow can be a blessing; the cup of sorrow can taste sweet. It's during times of heartbreak, struggle and challenge that we grow the most. The strongest steel has to go through the hottest furnace. When we allow the light to come in, darkness doesn't have any other choice but to leave.




Martyn Bray (CTACC) is Principle Coach at Openpresence Life Coaching.

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