Get the Man You Love - Stop Playing and Get to the Heart of Him

Do you want to get the man you love, but you have no clue how? Have you been dating for too long and you just want to settle down and get the man you love? Is the merry go round dating scene getting old and you want to quit it and finally get the man you love?

We can sometimes end up meeting tons of guys before we meet that one special man who really has everything we're looking for. So if you've been around a time or two and still can't get the man you love, here's what you should be looking into.

Dressing to Please

Many women tend to dress in a way that will attract a lot of attention. Then they turn around and complain that they don't find men they can love, only men who want a hot night in bed.

Go out there with a better and clearer vision of the woman you are. If you want to play the tramp, then, by all means, dress like a tramp. But if you're looking to meet a guy who is going to really take the time to get to know the woman you are, show him that you're more than just a hot body.

Be Interested as Well as Interesting

Women certainly have the reputation for chatting the hours away. We love to talk and we love to give details. And if this competitive world, we love to show how much we've accomplished in our lives.

This can all lead to crowding out his ability to get a word in and impress you a bit. Dating is a huge exchange of information about one another. If you're doing all the talking, not only are you telling him too much about yourself, but you're also depriving yourself of some important information or just pleasant chit chat with him.

The Future to Come

For a guy to fall in love with a girl, he wants to be able to see a great future with her. If after only a few months of dating you're already getting on his back for a series of minor offences, he might start to think you're a bit too demanding and want to back out of the relationship.

Romance, relationships and the path to a lifetime together should be fun, exciting and filled with that optimistic view of your future.

Love Yourself

How are you going to get that guy you love if you don't love yourself? Many women are looking for a man to fix their lives, but you should already have a handle on your life before you meet him.

This man should come in and enhance your life, not be your life. So discover yourself, find activities you enjoy, and find out where you really want to go in life. Then open up and be ready to allow that special guy to come in and share that life with you. With your own well balanced life in your hands, you'll have so much more to bring to this romantic relationship.

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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.