Lead Him Into Love - The Secret to His Heart

Are you afraid you might never get a guy to fall in love with you? Have you had a lot of fun on the dating scene, but it's time something more serious happened? Do the men you date seem completely disinterested in a truly loving relationship? Not every man is ready to jump into a real romance, but there are plenty of men out there who want the whole thing. Here's how to tell which guys you should spend your time with and how to get them into a relationship with you.

Back in the day, the rules to dating were a little more clear cut. Men made the moves, and women were demure, if not submissive. And sex was reserved for much later in the relationship.

Well women are now making the moves and we're far from demure. But our desire to have our sexuality out on constant display can sometimes come back to bite us. Overt sexuality is the best bait for catching the guy who'll most likely not have any interest in a true relationship. All he wants is a fun night tossing in bed with you.

To attract that guy who'll want more of a relationship, you need to show him that you have something more to offer. Start off on a platonic foot instead of letting your sexuality guide you. Get to know him. Talk to him. Listen. This is the best way to find out what he's all about and you want him to have a little glimpse at who you are as well.

You're probably worried that the cute guy you really like might not have the patience to get to know you and he'll want to have sex right away. You're probably afraid he won't want to spend any time with you if you don't give in. Yes, that is a great possibility. But you need to ask yourself if you want to continue wasting time with cute guys that only want a hot night of sex or you want the real thing that is going to last.

Spend your time on the guy who has something to say, who you admire and who you'd like to be with for the rest of your life. Though this isn't the time to bring up that fact. Never start a relationship with the declaration of where you want that relationship to go. This can be an immense strain on the guy who is just looking to get to know you through fun dates.

Many women think too much about the fun that they're having all while forgetting about the memory she might be leaving her date with. You want him to enjoy himself enough with you that he'll want to see you again and again. Don't turn your dates with him into a chore by trying too hard to guide him down a certain path.

Overall, you want him to simply feel great about being with you, even if you're not doing anything particularly special. It's the bond that grows between you two that will really have you getting closer. Admire him and show him that you respect the man he is. Also think of what you're bringing to the relationship and remember that he wants to admire you as well.

You're smart and vibrant and have plenty to offer, so let him see that. When he realizes how much you bring to his life and how great it is being with you all the time, he'll fall in love with you.

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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.