Make Him Fall in Love - Take His Hand to Your Heart

Is it frustrating trying to get a man to fall in love with you? Have you noticed the differences between the way men view love versus how women do? Have you been trying to figure men out, but they are just so darned confusing? Believe me, they don't deliberately want to confuse you. For the most part, they are often confused themselves. But there's a common thread among what men are looking for when they set out to find love. Read on to find out where that thread leads.

Love is filled with obstacles. Finding the right match can be complicated, connecting is sometimes hindered by long distances or you're simply not hanging out where the man of your dreams is.

First know what you're looking for. Many women build up a perfect hero, then try to make the men they meet fit into that mold. This is why so many women end up trying to change a man so much. Don't assume that just because he looks the part he'll actually turn out to be that impossibly romantic dream man you really want.

It can be heart wrenching to leave that cute guy behind, but if he's not what you really need in your life there's no point beating a dead horse. Be honest in your assessment of the men you meet. This can only be done by going on a number of dates with him and finding out who he really is. Take your time to discover him.

When you finally find that perfect match, don't suddenly turn the pressure up and try to get him to become more committed than he is at that point in the relationship. You still need time to grow together and make that solid bond with him.

Some women enter the dating arena with a detailed list of what they're looking for. On those first few dates they're interviewing him and mentally checking off one point after another. And this is what they base their future on. But getting to know him isn't a simple matter of questions and answers. It's in the time you spend with one another that is really going to give you the right answers.

Whether your dates are wild, romantic, adventurous or quiet, the key is to find that bond that will simply leave you feeling comfortable around each other. In this, you'll want to remember how he's feeling in the relationship. He needs your admiration. It may seem macho, but he really wants to be the man in the relationship. Dah, isn't a man what you want? Then don't nitpick and badger him about a bunch of silly little things until he feels like an insignificant little boy.

When you realize you love him, you have to also realize that you love him for who he is, not what you're hoping to mold him into. Praise the great things he does and be generous with your appreciation of him. No one's perfect, so let him be.

Having these great times with you, laughing and enjoying himself, and seeing that you're the woman who is truly going to love him for who he is, he'll open up his heart and come to fall in love with you.

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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.