2012年11月2日 星期五

Win His Love and Commitment - Make Him Yours


Have you tried to win his love and commitment? Despite tons of dates, has true love always eluded you? Do your dates seem to go well, but nothing ever happens afterwards? Many women have a knack for turning heads, catching men's attention and getting loads of dates. However, after two or three dates, the guy simply doesn't call back or has some flimsy excuse for not seeing her. If this sounds familiar, read on to see what you've been doing to send men walking the other way.

It's pretty much considered prudish by many modern women to lay off the sexuality right off the bat. Cleavage is on display everywhere, skirts are barely the width of a belt and little is left to the imagination. This can be great and very effective if you're looking to hook up with a guy for a night or two of wild sex. However, if your thoughts are running more along the lines of finding a truly good man you can spend the rest of your life with, this may not be the best approach.

Winning a man's love and devotion takes a little more effort that simply flaunting your sexual virtues. He wants to know that you have a personality that meshes well with his. He wants to be able to have fun with you and laugh with you. He needs to feel important, strong and needed. Yes, sex has an important role in every relationship, but there has to be more, so much more. Take care of the friendship first then see if bringing that friendship to a sexual relationship is something you really want.

When things are going good and you've come to know him fairly well, don't let your emotions take control of your head. If you start to get ahead of yourself, if you start to imagine how great your life with him would be and you just can't wait for him to commit to you and prove his love, take a second and think about it.

Before you throw your expectations on him and try to make him see the long, happy life you could have together, consider the fact that he may not be thinking that far ahead yet. There's a good chance that he's having fun getting to know you, that he's still exploring various aspects of the woman that you are and he just wants to go on having a good time every time he sees you. Don't ruin that be suddenly putting the pressure on because you've decided that you want more.

For the most part, the man who falls in love with a woman and sees that his life is so great when she's around will eventually figure out that he wants to spend the rest of his life with her and he'll commit. But when the woman decides she's ready and starts to push, she risks making every date with her unpleasant.

Keep it fun. Keep it real. Keep him interested. With all this, you're sure to win his love and commitment.




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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.




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