2012年10月2日 星期二

Keep a Conversation Going: How to Keep Your Date Interested


Have you been asked to a date lately by someone? Have you already prepared what clothes to wear that would make you look your best? Are you also thinking of ways on how you can keep him interested and how to keep a conversation going during your date?

Being on a date for the first time can make you nervous. First dates are the make or break type. Being asked for a second date will depend on how the first date turned out between the two of you. How can you say that a date has been successful? During the date, you have to make him more interested in you. You can dress up in order to look pretty but you also have to have something other than your looks to make him ask you on a date again. You must be able to connect with him by having a great conversation. There are times however when you will suddenly run out of words to say, which can then lead to an awkward silence. To keep a conversation going, there are a lot of things that you can do.

1. Talk About Hobbies: Talking about your hobbies can be a good start and will help keep a conversation going. Guys like to talk about the things they like doing such as sports. They will never run out of words when it comes to the sports they like. During the conversation, you can talk about your hobbies and you can ask him about his own. Before you know it, it's already past 9 and you have already been talking for more than an hour.

2. Be Attentive: When you are on a date, refrain from texting or calling others. A lot of women make the mistake of entertaining a text message while half-listening to their dates talk. This will surely offend your date and he will stop talking all of a sudden once he sees that you are not being attentive at all. To keep a conversation going, turn off your cellular phone and give your date all the attention he needs. Being attentive to your date will mean that you respect him and you are willing to listen to what he is talking about.

3. Enjoy the Date: Make the most out of your date and enjoy every minute of it. Guys appreciate girls who know how to enjoy a date. You do not need to be in a fancy restaurant or in a party to enjoy a date. Having just a simple conversation while strolling the park is already fun if you know how to keep a conversation going. Guys like simple dates too.

4. Be Spontaneous: You have to be spontaneous if you don't want to bore your date. Guys have short attention span and if they see the first sign of boredom in their dates then they will lose interest right away. Refrain from going through a routine-type of date. Suggest something fun and different to do other than having a dinner and going to a movie while engaging him in a fun conversation and making sure that you keep a conversation going all throughout the date.




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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.




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