Are you an employee who knows exactly what the boss needs but have no idea what a man needs from you when you are dating? Do you have any change in attitude when you leave work and go out on a date? Does it annoy you when a man talks the talk about liking strong women but doesn't walk the walk? Don't worry, these questions are very typical for today's professional women. If you try and delve into a modern man's mind and discover what it is he is looking for in a woman, you might be able to find some answers. Once you think you have the answers, implementing a plan to meet those needs is important.
But one thing you need to not be surprised about, is the fact that men like a little mystery in a relationship. More women need to consider this when pursuing a relationship. They apply the same tactics to their relationships that they use in their careers. They pick up phone calls unfailingly, they show up early, and they answer questions with complete, non-mysterious answers. Take note! This is not the way to get a man interested, it will bore him. In order for a man to want to pursue you, you need to entice him with just enough information to interest him, but not enough to bore him.
Excitement is crucial in giving the man the urge to pursue a woman in addition to having concern about her actions when she isn't with him. These emotions are actually a positive thing during the early stage of the relationship, as the stimulation is what men thrive on during the chase. Actually, men and women aren't that different from what they want from a relationship. Both value compatibility and love. Men want to be with someone who they're not just in love with, but are best friends with.
Interestingly, men have different qualities for the type of women they typically date. A guy will date someone whom he wouldn't really want his family to meet. Most men get turned on by a sexy women and just think it's fun to ask her out. A guy sees what he thinks he likes, and goes after it.By the time they realize they wanted something else, it's too late.
What should a business-minded woman wear and do to attract the type of guy she would like to go out with?
Dress the part.
Women need to avoid super sexy outfits and ultra-conservative outfits. Although guys check out women in sexy clothes, they are drawn to women who wear casual clothes and have a neat appearance.
Keep him guessing.
Let him have a glimpse at some of your quirks. Forget to return a call every now and then. When he asks questions about your time with friends, be vague.
Men want to steer the relationship.
For the relationship to take off, a man needs to feel that he's in control of how things are going, in order for him to feel good about the relationship. With him in charge, enjoy the ride! It's important to allow him to take charge and to show appreciation for that. Although they might not want to admit it, men need to feel that their masculinity is safe.
Remember that what men need from you most is understanding. Continually affirm your guy and let him know you notice all the little things he does to keep your relationship going. Apply these steps the next time you and the gang go to happy hour and you might just end up with a date.
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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.
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