Be Who He Wants While Being Yourself - A Definite Path to Love

Are you ready for a long-term relationship? Do you have someone in mind who you would love to be in love with? Are you prepared for the work of a partnership with someone? If you are ready for a loving, stable relationship but aren't quite sure how to make it happen, read on!

After you play the dating game for a while, you realize that it's mostly smoke and mirrors. There's not much depth to dating. It's all very surface oriented, yet sometimes you long for more. Sometimes you want a relationship that is stable, loving and comfortable.

In order to be comfortable, you are going to have to learn to be yourself around men. It's a hard thing to do because if you've been dating many guys, you probably have felt the need to be someone that you really aren't. Women get caught up in the game of dating and forget that in order for a relationship to be stable and supporting, you really must be yourself.

Being your true self is really the only way to create a sustainable relationship with someone else. When you find the person that you want to be with, then choose not to play the game. Take down those game walls, and let your true self shine through. He will notice the difference and discover that while you may not be what he's used to, you've got something that he just has to have.

It's hard to break out of the role that you've created for yourself, so try to give yourself some time to figure it all out. Let him know that you are ready for something new and different, but don't overwhelm him with your desire for long-term permanency. He will get worried if you are too overzealous.

Explore yourself and your personality in order to really get to know who you are and what you have to give. Once the guy sees the amount of work you are willing to put into the relationship with yourself, he will automatically realize that you are worth investing time and energy into.

It's a hard path, but one that can result in goodness and a terrific relationship. Get to know who you are before you try to get a man to fall in love with you. If he sees that you are honest, authentic and sincere then he will be sure to want to be with you.

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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.

The Type Of Woman A Guy Really Wants To Date - How to Be An Irresistible Woman

Are you an employee who knows exactly what the boss needs but have no idea what a man needs from you when you are dating? Do you have any change in attitude when you leave work and go out on a date? Does it annoy you when a man talks the talk about liking strong women but doesn't walk the walk? Don't worry, these questions are very typical for today's professional women. If you try and delve into a modern man's mind and discover what it is he is looking for in a woman, you might be able to find some answers. Once you think you have the answers, implementing a plan to meet those needs is important.

But one thing you need to not be surprised about, is the fact that men like a little mystery in a relationship. More women need to consider this when pursuing a relationship. They apply the same tactics to their relationships that they use in their careers. They pick up phone calls unfailingly, they show up early, and they answer questions with complete, non-mysterious answers. Take note! This is not the way to get a man interested, it will bore him. In order for a man to want to pursue you, you need to entice him with just enough information to interest him, but not enough to bore him.

Excitement is crucial in giving the man the urge to pursue a woman in addition to having concern about her actions when she isn't with him. These emotions are actually a positive thing during the early stage of the relationship, as the stimulation is what men thrive on during the chase. Actually, men and women aren't that different from what they want from a relationship. Both value compatibility and love. Men want to be with someone who they're not just in love with, but are best friends with.

Interestingly, men have different qualities for the type of women they typically date. A guy will date someone whom he wouldn't really want his family to meet. Most men get turned on by a sexy women and just think it's fun to ask her out. A guy sees what he thinks he likes, and goes after it.By the time they realize they wanted something else, it's too late.

What should a business-minded woman wear and do to attract the type of guy she would like to go out with?

Dress the part.

Women need to avoid super sexy outfits and ultra-conservative outfits. Although guys check out women in sexy clothes, they are drawn to women who wear casual clothes and have a neat appearance.

Keep him guessing.

Let him have a glimpse at some of your quirks. Forget to return a call every now and then. When he asks questions about your time with friends, be vague.

Men want to steer the relationship.

For the relationship to take off, a man needs to feel that he's in control of how things are going, in order for him to feel good about the relationship. With him in charge, enjoy the ride! It's important to allow him to take charge and to show appreciation for that. Although they might not want to admit it, men need to feel that their masculinity is safe.

Remember that what men need from you most is understanding. Continually affirm your guy and let him know you notice all the little things he does to keep your relationship going. Apply these steps the next time you and the gang go to happy hour and you might just end up with a date.

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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.