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2012年10月7日 星期日

Helpful Date Conversation Starters - What to Say on a Date


Are you running out of things to say on your date? Do you want to know more about your date? Do you need some date conversations starters to start the ball rolling? One thing that one usually avoids in a date is the moment of silence. It's certainly deafening if both individuals ran out of things to say. You certainly don't want that to happen, right?

You certainly need some date conversation starters to keep your date from getting boring. It's not easy being on a first date. You spend hours and money picking out the perfect dress to wear on your date. You also try to impress him and at some point in your date, the dead silence pops in which lasts for the next few hours. What you need to do is to come prepared with a good conversation. Here are some date conversation starters that you can use.

1. Always ask open-ended questions. Open-ended questions are a great way to get to know another person. Avoid asking questions that will make him answer a yes or no. Always ask what, when, where, who and how questions to him. This will make add more details in the questions you ask. However, your questions must have a limitation. Don't ask too many questions like as if you are an FBI interrogating him. He may feel intimidated with your questions.

2. Come up with witty, unique and humorous questions. You can ask these questions to break the ice. What is great about this is that he will know that you also have a fun side. He will also think that you are a good conversationalist because you manage to come up with topics that would break the ice. You can ask questions like his fears. You can ask him if he is afraid of heights. You can also ask him what his comfort food is. This will be a good way to know his favorite food and surprise him with it on some random day.

3. Compliment him. The moment you see him, compliment his appearance. Don't go for common or average comments like "You look nice", "You look good" and such. Instead tell him that his outfit looks great and such. This will boost his self-confidence up to a notch higher. This will also make him think that you are interested in him. If he cracks up some jokes, laugh at his jokes. Tell him he really knows how to make you laugh. This will get his anxiety level lower down and would make him more at ease to talk to you. Remember to show him some respect and courtesy. Do not compliment something negative about him. It's only your first date and you're already nagging about his short comings.

4. Don't make it a one-man show. This means you should not monopolize. Avoid talking about yourself all the time. You are like saying a monologue. Don't get too carried away in saying things about your life. Guys will get bored with that. Make your statements brief but with meaning and a hint of mystery.




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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.




2012年9月24日 星期一

I Want A Date - Helpful Tips If You Want a Date


Have you not had a date yet? Are you interested in having one? Is dating giving you a hard time? Then you can probably use some of my techniques I used when I want a date.

Starting teenage years, I have been involved in the fun activity of dating. It has been a way for me and even for adults as a start of getting to know our date. Eventually it will also be the stage where one decides if they are going to pursue in seeing and be on a relationship with the same person.

If you keep telling yourself I want a date, it is easy. Here are some tips that could be helpful in finding and having one.

• Be Friendly. Being friendly gives you the chance to meet new people. It is one of the best ways I used when I want a date. Friendliness gives the person you want to date an idea that he can approach you at any time. This is where you can start getting to know the person better.

• Be Attractive. If I want a date, I make sure I look good all the time. Guys always look on the outside appearance of the girl they would want to date. To them, good looks leave a good impression. So do not hesitate to fix yourself be noticeable.

• Smile. A great smile on your face could be remembered by men. It will make you look very approachable and nice. This would also help the guy to be more comfortable in asking you if you want a date at the soonest possible time. Whenever I want a date I always use this technique.

• Be Confident. Confidence is the key to gain attention of guys that you want a date from. Men could tell if you are confident enough or not. It is one factor that men want from their date. They want a woman who knows very well how to carry herself in front of a guy.

• Converse. Being a conversationalist does not mean that you have to know every fact and truth on every topic. Conversing is a very good factor to have if you want a date. You should know how to speak. Cite your opinions. Share your ideas. Men want women whom they can have a chat in anything under the sun as they say. Talk but know when to stop.

• Have Fun. Know how to laugh at things and be comfortable. Laugh if you want to. It would make the atmosphere light. This way the person you want a date from would enjoy your company. Eventually it could turn him out to longing for your presence and your company. A man wants to share a good laugh once in a while. It unleashes his true identity as well. For as we all know, there is always a child at heart in us.

• Be Adventurous. Use the internet. If I want a date and I want someone I like to get to know more before meeting, online dating is what I do. It is also where you can get to choose a date without being very guilty after rejecting guys who want to date you.




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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.