Lead Him to Love You - Love's Rules

Did you girlfriend admit that she led he man to fall in love with her and you wonder how she managed that? Have you been trying for years to make a man fall for you and nothing has ever happened? Are you tired of all the tricks you've used and you don't think anything will ever work? The situation is never as hopeless as you might think. Read on to see the key to finding love.

You may have received conflicting advice from your mom and her generation, and your friends who have a far more modern view of men, dating and sex. Well, while a few of the modern views do have merit, many of the things your mom told you may be even more pertinent today.

1. Put your best foot forward. Basically as you would in any other situation, you want to make a good first impression on the guy you meet. As shallow as you may find it, that does include looks. This doesn't mean that you're out of the game because you don't look like a model; it just means you need to take what you have and work it the best you can.

2. Don't be pushy. Many women have come to adopt a rather aggressive approach to men. They proposition men, make crude come ons and even vulgar gestures. Few guys appreciate this type of forceful attack from a woman. Sure, if they only want sex, the woman has just made it easier, but for more? Allow the guy to be the guy. Your modern woman sensibilities shouldn't feel threatened by letting him lead a bit.

3. There's no rush. Well, you may feel that there is, but if you really stop to think about it, is this something you want to rush... finding the love of your life? Enjoy each date on its own merit and not for the future you suddenly see building in front of you. Stay in the moment and don't let the pressure to turn this into a relationship seep through.

4. Give the emotions time to grow. The bond you build from date to date will come to create a wonderful atmosphere in which you will both feel comfortable and secure in. Show him all he has to be proud of and admire in you. In exchange, remember that a man needs to feel he has an important part in your life... as a man. Don't diminish his masculinity with thoughtless nitpicking. It'll keep communication open and easy. When you come to discover that you can tell each other anything, you'll know that you're on the path to something special.

5. Value yourself. If you want that special man to respect and value you, you have to feel the same for yourself. Know that you're worth more than just a trip to bed and don't allow any man to rush you into sex. The man who is truly interested in you will be more than eager to wait. He'll know that if you're making him wait it is because you're special and that you consider the relationship to be important enough.

These five simple steps should have you well on your way to finding that special man and getting him to fall in love with you.

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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.

Make a Guy Fall in Love - Be the Woman He Loves

Do you want to make a guy fall in love? Is that not the point of dating? Some women date just for friendship, but there comes a time when they want romance, love, an engagement and marriage. Has that time come for you? Is it time to make a guy fall in love - with you?

If so, follow this dating advice and follow along as we peek into male psychology and find out how to make him fall in love and how to make him commit to a long term relationship or marriage.

It is easy to attract men for a superficial relationship. If we do not ask much, but we give much, we can have a lot of guys for friends. But if we want a commitment, if we want romance, we need to work a little harder.

If you want to make a guy fall in love, you need to develop certain qualities that men like. Women usually like those qualities in a man also. What are they?

Self-confidence.

A woman may be intriguing when she is shy, bashful and awkward. But usually that kind of woman is a target for a man who is a user and an abuser. That is not the kind of man that you want to attract. You want one who respects women; someone who will treat you as an equal. So develop self-confidence.

You can do this by making sure that you look your best. Pay attention to your appearance; make sure your clothes are flattering and fit well; make sure your make-up is fresh; and pay attention to your hair. When we look good, we feel good and self-confident.

You can do this by being informed as to world events. Then when the conversation turns to this, you have something meaningful to say.

A positive, cheerful outlook on life.

We enjoy being around people who are happy, right? So, if you want your man to fall in love with you, he needs to want to be with you. So be happy. This will make him feel happy and comfortable and to want a deeper friendship, and, eventually, romance.

Someone who is interested in him.

When you are interested in him, it causes him to be interested in you. So, show him that you care. Take an interest in the things he enjoys. Compliment him. So be that person for him.

You can make a guy fall in love; just be the woman that he would love.

To learn more, click Fall in Love and learn Love Mistakes that 99% of women make without knowing.

This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.

How to Tell If He Really Loves Me - Signs of True Love

Does the fantasy side of your brain allow you to believe he could really be in love with you, but the logical side isn't sure? Have you been watching his every move in order to find a hint of what he's feeling? Do you need to know now or you'll go nuts? Look out for the signs. What signs? Read on.

Where do you fit in?

For the guy who is still talking in terms of, I'm going to do this, they've invited me to go there and I got myself a ticket to go see that, you gotta know that he's not thinking of you very much. He's not making any room for you. The man who is beginning to feel something for you is going to automatically include you in the majority of the plans he makes.

Does he feel for you?

While you're mentioning a problem to him, does he get a distance, faraway look indicating that he really doesn't care what you're going through? He may just be in it for the fun. But mention the same problem to a real man who cares, and you'll see that he'll jump at the chance to give you a hand. He'll want to offer a solution and will probably even step in to take care of the situation for you.

Don't take advantage of this generous nature, however. If you're constantly plagued with problems, he may come to think you're too much trouble. Keep a balance and don't overdo it.

Has he stopped playing around?

Those first few dates, it's natural to assume that he is dating other women, perhaps even as you are dating other men. But as the number of dates increase and a certain serious nature starts to instill itself in the relationship, it's natural to assume that he will stop dating other women. If you find that he refuses to do so, don't fall for whatever silly line he's going to give you to justify his actions. He's stringing you along.

Most men will be more than happy to give up the dating scene once they've found the woman they're truly happy with. He'll probably even offer it up and ask you to do the same.

So, is he in or is he out? Now you can tell.

But it doesn't stop there, mind you. Seeing the signs is one thing - knowing what to do at each sign is another. If you want free dating tips on how to improve your relationships with the men in your life, then sign up for my free newsletter here. You'll get great dating advice delivered straight to your e-mail several times a week!

This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.

Is it Really Love? How to Tell If He Truly Loves You

Does he truly love you or is it just a fling to him? Has he told you he loves you but you're not sure if he means it? Do you want to avoid getting your heart broken by a guy who's just telling you what you want to hear? There are a few ways to see if he truly loves you or whether he's just saying so to keep you off his back. See where you stand with these three relationship tests.

Does He Pay Attention To You?

You're probably spending a lot of time with your guy at this stage of your relationship. Have a look at how he behaves during your time together. Do your activities all focus on him and his interests? Is he always talking about himself, his job, his friends, his plans? If so, that's not good. Maybe he hasn't realized that it's all a bit one sided. Make a point of telling him what's going on with you and see how he reacts. Is he genuinely interested or not even listening?

Does He Support You Emotionally?

If he's not paying attention to you, he's probably not supporting you emotionally either. If you've had a terrible day or heard some bad news, pour your heart out to him and again, see how he reacts. If he brushes your problems off and changes the subject, you're in trouble here, it's unlikely that he truly loves you. If he stops what he's doing to show sympathy, understanding and tries to find a solution, this guy does care about you.

Does He Play The Field?

If he's still dating other girls, it's not necessarily the end of the world. A lot of guys are reluctant to date one girl exclusively especially if they've not done it before. Some guys have the mindset that they have the right to spread themselves around. It will take true love to break that habit, and the realization that he is hurting you by continuing to play the field. If he's not interested in dating you exclusively you might need to face up to the fact that he's not looking for the same level of commitment as you.

How did you fare in that test? You should now have an idea of whether or not he truly loves you and what you need to do next. If you believe he truly loves you then talk to him about taking your relationship to the next level. If it seems that he doesn't truly love you, maybe you should move on. There are plenty of guys out there longing for a loving girlfriend like you.

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This article is contributed by Tina Jones. Tina is part of the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women who want to understand male psychology, how to attract men, and find true love. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.

Three Big Giveaways - He Really Loves You!

Does he REALLY love you? Does he keep saying that he loves you but it doesn't ring true? Do you want to find out if he's just playing you or whether he truly thinks you're the one for him? Most women find themselves asking these questions at some point. Luckily there are three easy ways to find out whether or not he really loves you and here they are.

Does He Want To Date You Exclusively?

If he really loves you and already knows it, the answer to this is probably yes. If he's still dating other girls though, that's not good. Maybe he needs a bit of a push in the right direction here. How about you go and date other guys and make sure he knows about it? If he really loves you he will not be happy. This is your chance to bring up the subject of exclusivity to see if he is ready to commit to you or not.

Does He Know You Exist?

Okay, you're dating, of course he knows you exist. When you're with him though, who does the conversation focus on? Is it all about him or does he ask for your opinions on what you should do today? Is he interested in what's going on in your life? If he's always going on about himself and doesn't really care what you're into, he's not behaving like your true love should. Sometimes guys just don't think to ask though so prompt him and see if he gets the hint to pay more attention to you.

Is He There For Your Tough Times?

If he's nowhere to be found when you're having a crisis, this guy is not behaving like he really loves you. If he manages to be busy every time you need a shoulder to cry on then look elsewhere. You need a guy who will be there for you no matter what, and this guy does not fit that bill.

Imagine what if you could make any man adore you, chase you, love you, and commit to you? Click Unforgettable Woman Advice and learn 77 Secrets that ninety percent of women have never heard. You have got to see this!

This article is contributed by Tina Jones. Tina is part of the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women who want to understand male psychology, how to attract men, and find true love. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.

Analysis of Doc Love's The System - The Dating Dictionary

Doc Love (a.k.a. Thomas Hodges) is an internationally known dating and relationship coach for men. His knowledge and wisdom comes from having interviewed over 10,000 women during the last 35 years and posing fundamental questions on why a woman chooses to leave one guy and stay with another. He has also interviewed several men that are 'naturals' in this area and never have trouble getting and keeping women.

Doc Love's thorough analysis of information gathered from his interviews has culminated in 4 volumes of work:

THE SYSTEM - THE DATING DICTIONARY
MASTERY I
MASTERY II
MASTERY III

THE SYSTEM - THE DATING DICTIONARY is the basic course that sets the foundation for everything else. Once the student (whom Doc Love refers to as 'Spartan-In-Training') fully internalises it, he can move on to the advanced Mastery Series.

THE SYSTEM - THE DATING DICTIONARY covers some specific concepts and ingredients involved in the dynamics of any relationship. Some of them are as follows:

Interest Level: Just as Location is everything in the real estate business, a woman's Interest Level is everything in the dating game. Interest Level (IL in short) basically refers to how strongly she is attracted to you.

When her IL is high, she makes everything easy for you, does anything to make you happy and always finds a reason to be with you. On the other hand, when her IL is low, she starts to make some interesting excuses to avoid being with you. Interest Level is a dynamic factor and the man's actions will determine whether it rises up or falls down.

Challenge = How tough it is for the woman to win you over. If you just flip for an attractive woman, then you are a zero challenge for her, because she needs to do absolutely nothing to win you over! Instead, if you set your standards higher and expect not only physical attractiveness, but also proper respectful behaviour, honesty, integrity and a flexible attitude, then she needs to work a lot harder to win you over. In the latter case, you're displaying more challenge.

Confidence: This has two sub-components - Self-Confidence and Self-Esteem.

Self-Confidence = How strongly you believe in yourself. While it is possible to 'fake it until you make it', real confidence comes from product knowledge of life in general and women in particular.....and your demonstrated ability in the application of the same.

Self-Esteem = How much you value yourself. This is where it is important to say no to a woman from time to time, specially when you know that she is asking for something that would compromise your integrity. Women often do this to test you! But if you hold your ground during such occasions, her IL rises up. On the other hand, if you give in, her IL drops.

Control: This has three components - Patience, Self-Discipline and Self-Control (note that it does not refer to controlling the woman, which is actually impossible!)

The 3 C's mentioned above - Challenge, Confidence and Control - are the masculine steel traits that raise a woman's Interest Level. A man needs to practise all of them together to raise the woman's Interest Level. If her Interest Level drops, it is very likely that he is missing out on at least one of the 3 C's.

Once a woman's Interest Level rises over 95%, you are never wrong in her eyes! And that is where you need to be in order to have a happy relationship. However, there is also a set of masculine velvet traits that you need to practise in order to keep her Interest Level high. These are: Affection, Respect, Romance and Humour.

If you fail to practise these velvet traits, her Interest Level will drop.

Doc Love's THE SYSTEM - DATING DICTIONARY focusses more on long-term relationships than short-term flings. And in order to have a happy relationship that lasts for life, Doc Love teaches you that apart from gauging a woman's Interest Level, you also need to gauge her Attitude.

To be more precise, you date her Interest Level, but you marry her Attitude.

As far as a woman's attitude is concerned, she needs to have the following non-negotiables:

She must be self-reliant
She must have a high self-esteem
She must have a flexible nature
She must be a giver
She must have integrity, which in turn is comprised of loyalty, honesty and trustworthiness.

Note that it is possible for a woman to have a very high Interest Level in you; but if she has a lousy attitude then she will only end up lowering your interest level in her over the long haul. And this can make you miserable, specially if you get stuck in a loveless marriage.

Doc Love's THE SYSTEM - THE DATING DICTIONARY also teaches you that once a woman's IL goes below 50%, then it can never be brought back up. So the relationship is over for all practical purposes. However, while most men would leave a relationship when their IL drops below 50%, women usually wait until their IL drops below 40%, because of their nesting nature.

And it can take a long time....possibly more than 10-20 years for this to happen (i.e. for her Interest Level to fall from 49% to 39%). But during this period, you have almost zero chance of reviving her attraction for you. The relationship turns into a rut, and yes, you will have to put up with her incessant nagging, arguing, temper tantrums and disrespectful behaviour in general.

But once it goes below 40%, she has already built up enough resentment and hatred towards you that offsets the nesting factor...and consequently she becomes extremely vicious! This is when you hear about lots of men being falsely accused of rape, abuse or domestic violence and being sent to jail on false charges! I'm sure you must have come across at least one male friend of yours that went through this nasty ordeal. Quite a scary thing eh?!

So if you wish to avoid visiting a vicious anti-male family court; or shelling out truckloads of cash to divorce attorneys; or losing your hard-earned money and house to a vicious ex-wife; or losing custody of your children; or losing your sanity in general, you most definitely need to be equipped with superior knowledge of women and dating.

Mike Kaas is a dating and relationship adviser for men.

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